I graduated from tier 3 engineering college in 2011 after too much struggle I am working for an MNC.
Since childhood I had no friends I am a loner I had no friends as I always focused on my work and studies but in graduation I made some friends who never let me feel lonely in college.
I feel most friends developed a sense of ego after college I have also tried to connect with them via mail but they don't respond.
I feel lost sometimes due to this.
And as an introvert it's very hard for me to connect to anyone.
How do I deal with this? Is this my destiny? Will I have good friends again my life who ?
Friends come and go buddy, learn to make new ones no matter where you are. It's an important life skill.
@LooseGoose can you suggest me few steps how to make new ones ?
Been there. You can try places like Table Tennis, bowling alley, or even a few people from office you find chill and honest.
Bhai thanks for writing this. I feel this can sorted if we introverts take initiative and try to connect like minded folks. I would suggest you can host events in ur city via couchsurfing and see if you are able to sync synergies with folks.
@Curiousmonk nice idea bro
But two introverts usually don’t go along for long time. Usually you should bond and learn from an extrovert. At least that’s what I think
I have somehow this story in terms of frndship but trust me be good friend with yourself first .. infuse yourself with plenty of love and positivity for yourself keep cheering your life and growth...and yes it is very good not be where you fakely feel or your vibe doesn't matter..be frnds with everyone around you learn good things don't get emotionally involved in anyone's frndship in very short time..let things grow maturaly you gonna learn self how to maintain good space..yes you gonna wonderful frnds for you but before that you have to be expect less, learn to value your space ,create boundaries ,love your values and happiness.
Become an extrovert
@invtroverts brains are wired in a different way they can act to be an extrovert but deep down they will always be an introvert.
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