GigglyJellybean
GigglyJellybean
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Good and Bad! Do they matter?

Has anyone thaught what's good and Bad?why shud we exist in first place? We all make money to live , to eat food , to find a family that we like it or not but forced to get used to it sometimes, work hard for money and then die someday , just like any other animals , what's the point of it . Why die someday after hard work and no enjoyment or die with enjoyment ? Why!!... Anyways noone's gonna remember me , you , or anyone in 100, 200, 1000 years... What's the purpose of living a life according to someone as good or bad ...why live in first place?... If we are born to die , then why be born? Work hard to get a good job , and then to get a good wife ? Do they work that way nowadays? Do you think that if you get rich and find a partner, is she attracted to you or to your riches? And at the end of the day everyone wants a beautiful person who is also rich and doesn't contradict with you..... And I am losing hopes in this generation, in this era , in this world and the entire humanity which is fading away , in the form of society we let humanity die, This world is not for humans alone but for animals also....but we never respect the dogs we see on roads , This world is not fair , and why shud we pretend to be good in an unfair world ? I don't believe in life after death anol, you are made of cells and they do decompose after you are burried and whatever consciousness is it's nothing but release of chemicals that creates an illusion..... And we all believe in that illusion....

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ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba

Yes we take birth ultimately to die but what happens in between is life. It's like a movie that you are watching that you know is going to end for sure. You have two options :

  1. You can either enjoy the movie and then embrace the end and be okay that it ended but that it was really good while it lasted.

  2. Or worry all the time about that the movie is just going to end and there's going to be nothing after it and in that attempt do not even watch the movie properly.

See those ways of thinking? That is what exactly life is.

It's about how you can fool yourself the purpose of life is. For examples :

  1. A terrorist is convinced that it's purpose is to explode in between 100 people, and kill 20 people atleast Along with itself.

  2. That of a soldier is to save as many folks as possible in risky situation.

  3. That of me is to secure the basic financials and dedicate a good of time to parents and family and friends. Keep them happy and pray for their health and that's it. No aim to become the next Elon Musk or so. Not for me.

  4. That aim for Elon Musk could be going to Mar and he is least interested in his kids or anything around that .

Life is what you want to make out of it. I have fooled myself enough to not let bother the fact that "I am everyone I lose is going to die soon", rather have convinced myself that death is inevitable and there's no option but to be okay with it. And I can still make a decent life if I just worry about things that are in my control and not beyond my control.

ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba

And haan..good baad does it matter.

In the entirety may be it doesn't for the most. But it does matter to.

  1. Me.
  2. Everyone that I love and care for. Toh kinda important to me as it affects all the folks mentioned above.
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Thanks mate , kinda shed a light on me , last few months been awful , hope it gets better..

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