What you're looking at are South Delhi/Bombay content creators who most likely don't have to struggle as much as the regular woman. They whine about every little thing, better left alone.
Women historically have been abused and discriminated against which prevented them from getting any jobs hence getting tied up in abusive families with domestic violence a common place. The fact that we see discussions on women willing to not marry or asking if they should marry on this platform is proof that feminism has indeed worked since women CAN make that choice which wasn't available 20 years back(societal pressure is a whole different thing which is something men face as well in this regard).
Women are still in very early days in the corporate world, they need some sort of headstart which is done through pay parity/diversity hiring. The idea is simple when younger girls see their mothers and sisters in STEM related fields, it shouldn't look like a far-fetched dream which it mostly was 20 years back.
As for pseudo feminists or women who misuse this, they still belong to the minority. You cannot take away the benefits from the whole group because of a few.