Have you felt that the conversations with your work buddies and away from office buddies are not that fulfilling? Like you might be passionate about so many stuffs but you just don’t have that passion in anyone around you and you end up being yourself, overtime becoming very lonely while still consuming content at high pace.
Do you feel lonely? If yes how are you dealing it?
By learning to enjoy solitude and finding joy in your own interests and hobbies, instead of thinking of it as loneliness and craving the company of others.
Do you think solitude, would increase greater collaboration and happiness amongst humans?
I'm not sure about collaboration among humans, but being able to enjoy the peace of solitude certainly increases our own individual happiness.
Being alone is a state, but to enjoy that state as peaceful solitude, or resenting it as loneliness, is our own mental perspective.
Join communities. Volunteer.
Most of the communities are filled with people who just for namesake say I am passionate about this, but doesn’t carry a good conversation further. And it’s like 1st class to 12th class difference. And your 12th class differences are being neglected time and again.
You should be able to spot such folks and ignore. There isn’t any ready made solution for this. Look for communities who are well established and charges you or have some kind of entry or commitment fee.
Love yourself.
Create good habits.
Talk to family and best friends
Repeat
Love yourself - yes and checked
Create good habits - yes and checked
Talking with family and good friends - having great conversations on topics that you like is missing here. But works for 50% of the topics and not the other 50% which I am equally passionate about.
Join and meet old school , college friends for a lunch or movie 🍿 🎥, reddit meetups , gym sessions , you will feel better
Old school friends is good. But not usually. Once in six months, sorts. It’s not really about health - but a feeling that there are very limited people around us who are passionate about the topics that you’re passionate too.
Do you mean only buddies from your professional life?
Both ways. Major problem is I am not having a good coffee shop around just like how Newton had to go discuss “philosophy” or “growing startups” or “science “
Push yourself to get out , shake up your routine , either find a new hobby with old friends or force yourself to join a class so you may meet new friends with old hobbies.
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