PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Is having a crush in the office good or bad?

I like someone in my office, but not getting the courage to tell that person. because i have created my image like a good person who will not do such things in the office area.

Getting questions in mind like: What if that person informed about this to my seniors? What if any problem came to my career? What to do now?

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TwirlyTaco
TwirlyTaco

A very wise man once said:

"Don't hook-up, where you V-lookup" πŸ™

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

πŸ˜‚ funny but true

MagicalDonut
MagicalDonut

🀣🀣

BubblyCoconut
BubblyCoconut

Never search for honey where you earn money. 😌

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»

WobblyRaccoon
WobblyRaccoon

Thoda impress kro use, See if she is also into you, Ask her out if you think she is interested, career to ban jayega, pyyar mushkil se milta h

WobblyRaccoon
WobblyRaccoon

*sacha pyaar

PrancingMochi
PrancingMochi
HCL10mo

Satyavachan

WigglyNarwhal
WigglyNarwhal
PayTM10mo

In my team 5 people have spouses from same company only. Its not un-nice to ask someone for a coffee if you like them. Just read their body language and never make them uncomfortable.

  1. Have lunch with that person
  2. Find common interests
  3. If they are directly linked with your project, and if luck is by your side KT sessions can be used as a leverage.
  4. Chai pe charcha
  5. Do small good gestures.
  6. Ask if you can drop them after office.
  7. Ask directly to have evening coffee after work.
    Small steps goes a long way.
PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Bhai tu pura problem ko step by step solve kar diya theoretically. i think you are good mathematics πŸ™πŸ»πŸ˜„

BouncySushi
BouncySushi

All five wives probably threatened to report to the HR if their husbands didn't marry them. πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚

ZoomyQuokka
ZoomyQuokka
Wipro10mo

Us bro us😭. I am now on notice period and going to move to different city. Don't know should I confess before leaving?

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Bol de bhai ab toh tera mauka, jab akeli hoti hai na tab jaake bol de ki, You look very cute to me but i didn't get dare to express it.

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin

What's wrong in asking ? Rather than contemplating about the the permutations you could have an answer answer closure.

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

i remember those days, i used to go to office after completing my night shift, just to spend some time with her. People used to question what the hell i'm doing in the office

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

we dated for 3yrs

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

πŸ™πŸ»

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
PayTM10mo

Pyar kia to Darna kya... Dusari job mil jayegi...

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Bhai 6 months job change karne ka soch raha hoon koyi nahi mil raha hai. 😭 Market down hai

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
PayTM10mo

There n numbers of calls getting everything from Naukri to one of known person.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

If you don't tell anyone, it is good

Also, remember the POSH training

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Yes, that is the Laxman Rekha i don't want to cross

SqueakyKoala
SqueakyKoala

There’s a saying, dont shit where you eat which is true for office romances haha. If you are fine with putting your job on the line then only go for it. Cause you can’t control whom all the person will tell it to. So in my opinion its not worth it, and if they reciprocate then its a different situation, you won’t be confused then

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

I got your point πŸ‘πŸ»

JazzyMochi
JazzyMochi

Bro leave all this and figure out a way to stabise your life first else you would be stuck doing slavery for services companies throughout your life.

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

You are right bro πŸ‘πŸ»

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