Living Worst life

Depending on validation of a woman, wouldn't be a good idea.

I can feel you dude. I also feel alone a lot. I was in a relationship but broke up with her because it was very distracting for me to focus on career but now I feel so alone. Best thing I did is hitting gym 6 days in a week.

it's bad that you're feeling this way but try to think about it. what would you do with your future partner if you don't have anything interesting to do now? how would you spend time and day after day with her if you can't enjoy your day yourself right now? you're sounding depressed and desperate from this post but it's good that you shared it becasue then only you will be able to figure out things. try to start doing things, small things, big things doesn't matter but just start doing it. doesn't matter if you feel bored in doing those things. you can try reading books, going to your preferred restaurant or movies. try walking for half an hour or so or start going to gym. you can go for trekking by enrolling yourself in group where you can meet people. or just go for random backpacking trips.

you may feel like you know all this, you don't need suggestions and from all this nothing will happen but you have to give a chance to yourself to try new things only then something new will come.

try to make a life for yourself then only you can be happy with your future partner. because if not even if you get lucky and get a girlfriend what would you do with her? where will you go with her? it'll be bad for you and her and you'll come back to the same place. so start making life for yourself and you'll find your partner in this process.

you can take it or leave it but that's the only way for you. hope you find your peace.

Feeling same but gender reverse

Don't loose hope. Things will get better

Story of most Introverts I guess. Focussing on work and oneself for long time, so gets good career-wise, but after certain time, one does need some romantic relationship in life. That said, you don’t look like in “depression”, you just seem a bit lonely and dejected. Depression is a much serious issue, it is a medical term.

I hear you bro, It is not easy to open up like this.

Wanting a partner is totally normal, but don’t let it make you desperate. Rushing things can sometimes lead to the wrong person, and that’ll only make stuff harder.

Instead, focus on yourself for now, maybe pick up a sport, hit the gym, or try something new that excites you. Upskill, explore hobbies, or even think about switching jobs if that’s something you’d like. Also, figure out what gets you excited—like, what makes you wanna jump outta bed?

Also, if you wish to travel - plan a solo trip it will make you feel better, note that, all you need is a CHANGE.

When you’re doing what makes you happy, things (and people) tend to fall into place naturally. You got this—hang in there💪💪

Ping me dude 9940233287..u have brother in me

Everyone needs someone dude I always thought I'll date someone, marry that person in future

But life doesn't go like that, I do wish to have a partner like you said , but the thought of everything falling apart again makes it harder to take a step ahead

Coming from a friendless jobless person

You are atleast earning well

Hey brother first of all sending good vibes your way 🫂, uk man in our age emotions make us mad we compare continuosly everything with others. I'm exactly undergoing the same emotions as you, would want to pursue all the hobbies that I want to buy with someone not alone. Bud when I see people around me it kinda makes me sad but yeah man these things are luck based, no hardwork can get you a partner or gf, if it will be meant to be it will happen else it will not.

I know you earn well that's a great thing but uk people in love don't look for earning, I also don't know the science behind it but conclusively it's luck mostly. I keep reminding myself of these things but still I feel shallow at times. It's great bud you vented your feelings.

But yaar pyar har kisi ko nhi milta aur jinko milta hai unko qadar nhi hai uski mere dost. Bro if you ever want to talk just ping me. I could say nothing more than this and would not say anything more as well, I know what you are going through but this is life which we have to live, no choice apart from it.