My girlfriend left me because I make 14LPA...
I met my girlfriend during college, 5 years ago.
We were so much in love. I remember we used to go on dates to picnics, museums and the works. I spent and invested a lot of money and time in this relationship. I feel that my life is purposeless now that she has left me.
Her father is a very high ranking government official. He has gotten marriage proposals from very well endowed political connections. Apparently some ex-CM's son is out in the marriage market looking.
I don't know why but I still thought we would make it. Like, nothing can come between us.
She texted me last night that she was leaving me because I only make 14LPA. My hands are still trembling. I want to go be the best version of myself and simultaneously think that the train tracks are looking comfy to sleep on.
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Don’t cry brother. Salary is subjective.. it might be 14 today, it will increase tomorrow. I personally feel you got saved from a gold digger. You gonna get much more beautiful and honest, loving girls in Arrange marriage. All the best.
@DentalEnterprise I have no strength for marriage right now. I had already dreamt of a home with her. A family. Now I feel nothing but darkness. I had depression and anxiety before and I know I need to seek therapy.
I was in the same phase as you! You will get over it. Join gym, go on bike rides, do some trekking.. Trust me after that you will be relieved. Prepare well. Switch for a higher package. Simple.
When she has a range of getting married to Ex CM’s son. How come she was dating you since 5 years ? ? Sounding like cooked story 💁🏻♂️ this can only happen south movies
You are worth so much more than someone finding your value in the package. Just work hard and find the right person along the way.
@SafeGram8 Sahi mei. I am trying to get over her but I cannot get over my emotions for her.
It will take time. Be ready to go through the process. Someone once told me that when a person leaves us it's not exactly the person we are missing but rather the habit of that person that we are longing for. Unlike any other habit it will take time to break. But just think about this if the girl left you only because your salary is low as per her standards then she could have left you at the worst of times and that would actually have been bad. You'll feel worthless for sometime but its the very fact that you should try to change.
God has better plans for you. Just believe in him.
If she really wants to be with you, she wont took this step. She is shooting the gun from someone else’s (father) shoulder.
I also had faced the same thing last year. MBA batchmates together for 4years. Both family parents met also but her family keeps on giving lame excuses like
joint family hai..
boy package is same as girl package
my girl is healthy your boy is fit…
girl will not live with boys parents under same roof…
height (5’7) same hai toh barabar ki jodi nahi blah blah rubbish.
I got married this year. Beautifully amazing wife who takes care of me and my parents. We are happily living with our family and I honestly have no regrets.
Jisko karni hoti hai woh karleta hai.. no point to regretting and crying.. if you are a good human then god will definitely gonna do good to you. Maybe it takes some time and kuch papad belne padhe but eventually you’ll not be disappointed.
Never lose your self respect. Respect your parent’s advice and have a deep conversation with your close friends.
All the best man!! 36 aaegi 36 jaegi teri waali teri mummy laegi :p
Bhai, you will have pain for a few months that's understandable. Take counselling.
But you will be happy more than ever in a few years time, take it from me in writing.
You got saved from-
- gold digger,
- extra marital affair
- an unexpected divorce
- saved your future kids
- court cases for alimony settlement
- anxiety, depression, health issues
God plans some accidents for good. Cry for few days and move on.
Her loss! She is choosing money over love.
It will be really difficult for you to move on but you deserve someone who can love and respect you back.
Meet your friends and seek help from your closed ones if you are feeling suicidal. Please keep your self busy in work or with family, your life is worth more than spending on someone so greedy.
This cycle never ends, getting 14 LPA is a dream for a million people.
Sending hugs! Stay strong!
Hang on buddy, focus on your skills and switch with high package, you will get a better one (who’s not a gold digger)
There’s nothing any of us can say that’ll make you feel better and this is sad what happened. But if she left you for money, it’s better she did it now than later man. Hang in there, pick yourself up and do your best. You might or might not make insane amounts of money but you can be a good man.
@Hikari Dont want to be good anymore. It is time for my villain era.
just forget and move on !!!