Hi everyone, I am a 24F. I have recently come out of a situationship, actually I was forced out of it because of his commitment issues. It feels horrible to force myself not to talk with him like we used to , though we are still in speaking terms.. Now I am in a constant dilemma whether to hope that he will commit or to move on. Because of this I lost interest in everything.. even eating twice a day is feeling like a lot of work..!
Any solid advice will be helpful, Thanks..
I’m going through the same. It’s best to look in the mirror and live for you. Sounds cliche, but you’re not deserving of anyone’s second guesses. I’m 25F, so I can tell you we girls have 5 years easily before parents start telling us we will be old hags if we don’t marry. Till then, just flirt around and don’t attach. God will have made someone for you with the same energies.
I am just out of a 3 year relationship and also failed at a situationship. The best thing you can do is to pick yourself up and not text the morons. Give yourself 21 days - they will come back for your body or the attention. Then take a wise call - don’t read your book backwards.
Lol. A girl is trying to pull other girl into same mess she is in. Kindly, think long term and not about short term pleasure/getting out of pain.
And you’re a pure fruit, writing all this?
A broken girl(from comments section) ie pushing another girl ( @DeluluGirl) to get more broken. When men are broken, other men try to help him, but many women are just jealous and want other women to fall down just the way they did.
@DeluluGirlif you really want peace then resolve the internal issues. If one has peace it is everywhere, with everyone. If one doesn't have it, it is with no one. So please look inside and work on that. We all know internally hookups, casual stuff IS WRONG AND BAD FOR OUR OWN SELF. It is destroying our mental health and expectations. That girl in comment section is suggesting to flirt around with guys and "enjoy it" before getting marriage day. If Flirting around and being casual with boys is called as enjoying in women's world. Then being unemployed and being lazy all day without taking any responsibilities would be called as enjoying in the men's world.
We know both of these things are wrong. None of this is RIGHT FOR US.
@DeluluGirl
I highly urge to focus on your mental health and look at long term happiness and peace rather than short term happiness. And please don't go along with what "people/girls who have already lost" are suggesting you to do.
There is no absolute right or wrong in such things buddy, it's all subjective and depends on what the person wants in the short, medium and long term.
Many people would want casual stuff or situationships compared to not having anything at all and being lonely. It's all relative.
Men and women need intimacy, period. Labels don't really matter as much as you think.
Been there. First of all virtual hugs... sucks to be in the situation.
Just tell the person you need a commitment by a specific date and to not call you, message you or have any contact whatsoever. Basically a break. Meanwhile, if possible, do a digital detox, leave all devices at home. If possible go for some retreat or a long hike. If this ain't doable, go visit a couple of your friends and make travel plans everyday for a couple days. Once back, start a new hobby to keep you occupied and help you meet people. All this while, have no communication with this person.
Once you feel ready and mentally prepared(you'll be better prepared after a break), either break up or get together depending on what you feel and what he thinks! Protip: don't keep your hopes high.
Just got off Instagram today and blocked this one guy I know isn’t worth my time
Best advice is - don’t be alone. Spend as much time as possible with your family, friends or anyone close. If staying away from family & friends - then walk upto strangers but don’t let all emotions and past cover your mind like jacket of clouds.
Time for solo trip .. travelling will help you seeing the broader perspective .It will also help you to connect with strangers ..Do give it a try
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