SillyKoala
SillyKoala

Parents are my favourite travel buddies

You know, it hit me the other day. I've crossed over to the other side of my twenties, and something's changed. Those wild trips with friends? They're still fun, but these days, I'm itching to pack my bags with Mom and Dad instead - I absolutely love it!

Growing up, holidays weren't exactly a luxury, but they were... basic. A trip to the nearest hill station, staying at modest lodges. Or visiting relatives, where the biggest adventure was exploring a new neighborhood. Dad, the ever-dedicated government employee, and Mom, who gave up her career to raise me - they did their best with what we had.

Every spare rupee went into FDs, their dreams tucked away in those fixed deposits with my name on them. Fancy hotels or exotic locations? Those were things we saw on TV, not experienced firsthand.

Their hard work paid off. I landed in a good college, then scored a job that had me earning over a lakh straight out of the gate. When I wanted to switch careers or take risks, they never held me back. They let me fly, even when I'm sure their hearts were in their throats.

Now? Now it's my turn.

There's something deeply satisfying about booking that fancy hotel room for them, watching Dad's eyes widen at the view, or Mom cautiously testing the softness of the bed. Taking them to restaurants they'd never splurge on themselves - Mom still gasps at the prices, telling me off for wasting money, but I see the pride in her eyes.

I love watching them experience things for the first time. Dad figuring out the in-room coffee machine like it's a puzzle. Mom hesitantly trying new cuisines, then asking for seconds. The way they hold hands and gaze at a sunset, finally free from the worries that shadowed their younger years.

It's not always smooth sailing. Dad still insists on carrying all the luggage. Mom packs enough snacks to feed a small army. They tire faster than I remember, and sometimes the generation gap yawns wide. But those moments - watching them rediscover each other, seeing them relaxed and happy - they're priceless.

This is what money should be for. Not just accumulating stuff, but creating moments. Giving back to the people who gave up so much for us. It's about time they got to enjoy the fruits of their labor, to indulge in the little luxuries they always put off for my sake.

So yeah, traveling with parents? It's underrated. It's a chance to see the world through their eyes, to understand them as people, not just as "Mom and Dad". It's watching them blossom when the weight of responsibility lifts.

To anyone out there lucky enough to still have their parents around - take that trip. Book that nice hotel. Splurge on that fancy dinner. The memories you'll make? They're worth more than any investment you could ever make.

Because the truth is, our time with them is limited. Every year that passes, I'm more aware of the clock ticking. And nothing - no project, no promotion, no amount of money - is more important than carving out every possible moment to be with them, to show them the world beyond what they've shown me.

I want to fill their remaining years with as much joy and wonder as they filled my childhood. Because one day, these memories will be all I have left. And I want them to be spectacular - full of new experiences, shared laughter, and the spark in their eyes as they see the world anew through the life they worked so hard to give me.

Here's a picture from our trip to Mukteshwar, lit up a nice bonfire post dinner on a chilly November night - this Airbnb was possibly one of the best I've been to!

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SillyKoala
SillyKoala

Why am I posting a this now?

Itā€™s the long weekend, go take them out - fuck savings, spoil them :)

QuirkyBagel
QuirkyBagel

Would you do us all another favor and paste it in a G doc? I want to copy this and keep it in my philosophy repertoire but am unable to.

WigglyRaccoon
WigglyRaccoon

Screenshot and extract text using g scanner

WigglyRaccoon
WigglyRaccoon

Iā€™m 25 and Iā€™m crying right now reading this post as i didnā€™t achieved much as of now and sort of struck in life and itā€™s too much mental pressure to jailbreak the situation. Congrats for you and be happy and peaceful

DerpyJellybean
DerpyJellybean

Hey, it's fine we all are in different races and youā€™re going to win yours for sureā¤ļø

DerpyTaco
DerpyTaco
HCL1d

Don't worry dude. Surely you will get your time and you get to experience everything the post has in it

ZippyPotato
ZippyPotato

Beautiful post. It felt like youā€™re speaking my story and my exact emotions

SparklyCupcake
SparklyCupcake

Chal pagli, ab rulayegi kya! @HeartySlide

DerpyBurrito
DerpyBurrito

It was a really good one and reminded me of the image i saw on X

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GroovyHamster
GroovyHamster

I am clueless how to land a job. Please explain how did you manage to get a job after college and if possible please teach me how to land a job after graduation. I have done BBA. Your story is really inspiring to me and I want to be like you.

DizzyBurrito
DizzyBurrito

First op got into a good college. Did well in acads and others. Good Companies probably have come to college job fairs. Op applied and got the offer. If you're already in a good college, just try to stand out from the crowd. They only need the cream layer of the crowd.

GroovyHamster
GroovyHamster

Thanks mate. I really appreciate your response. I am not getting any good offers from the placement cell in my college so thinking to develop some skills that let me help to land a job which offers travel benefits with high salary.

JazzyBoba
JazzyBoba

@HeartySlide
Hey how to convince them to go for trips Any trick or thing you would want to share

SwirlyUnicorn
SwirlyUnicorn

I tried being passive regressive, logical and emotional at different times. Make them realize that they don't really have much time left and it's now only they have got some free time after so many years. Either get a hobby(which is not scrolling mobile all day) or make short trip plans.

JazzyBoba
JazzyBoba

Thanks šŸ™

ZoomyBiscuit
ZoomyBiscuit

Good for you. Happy that you've a great relationship with your parents. The rest of us with narcissists....Keep calm and bugger on!!!

SqueakyDumpling
SqueakyDumpling

Beautiful post. I made a conscious choice to spend more and more time with my family (parents and sisters), especially since I work at a far-off location. Need to take them on a trip though. Your post inspires me to do so at the earliest.

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Beautiful

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