DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama

People in/were in your 20s, what would/did you do?

So, I have heard multiple people that 20s is about exploring. Explore different jobs, work style, people etc , you name it! I believe with that, you cannot think of earning as exploration into different roles results in being at the same level across roles.

  1. What would you do or are currently doing about this?
  2. Do you agree that 20s is about exploring?
  3. Did you explore in your 20s or did you try to climb the corporate ladder?
  4. Would you do things differently if you had the chance?
21mo ago
FloatingMuffin
FloatingMuffin

Drop the western view of fun - Clubbing,partying,getting high/laid anyone can do. You don’t need any hard skills for it.

You have to change your perception of fun - I am a strong believer that 20s are for building your self.

Get Up Early - Explore your religion/spirituality - Work Hard - Don’t burn yourself out but ya the seeds you sow with hard work will pay on later in life.
Go Workout - Go for a Run- Go to the Gym it’s gonna help you live longer.

Eat healthy - Quit Smoking

Own Your life - Set Goals - Figure out your 2-5-10 Year Goals.

And When you have started this journey feel free to out with your friends create movie worthy stories and find the love of your life.

MagicalNoodle
MagicalNoodle
MyGate21mo

Disagree with the dating part. You should take advantage of the physics part while you are young.

FloatingMuffin
FloatingMuffin

Didn’t get you ?

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

In early 20s now. I don’t have much to do differently but would’ve been less arrogant in my past. I was insanely arrogant and cocky and lost some connections coz of it.
Also 20s not for exploring didn’t climb corp ladder will never do that corp world is not for me.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

If 20s isn't for exploring, what do you think it is for?

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

Sowing seeds for your future to build yourself. Look towards growing your businesses and revenue sources. Exploring is west’s idea of fun. In India from where I come from I think I had all the fun that life could give

ZippyDumpling
ZippyDumpling

20s is about exploring but that doesn’t mean you hurt your chances of success

In my case, I switched multiple company sizes (across early stage, large company, etc.) and domains (generalist, technical stuff)

It has never hurt me. It’s helped me figure out what I like and what I don’t like. I’m doing better than I would have otherwise.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

Curious to know, what kind of roles have you shifted across?

SillyKoala
SillyKoala

When switching multiple teams, did you ever find a team your manager/team was good and chill but you had to leave them. How did you overcome the fear of loosing them and venturing into a new one? What if they were bad?

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Following

BubblyBoba
BubblyBoba

Fyi
There is an option to follow

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Yeah, Just saw that notification button.

FloatingJellybean
FloatingJellybean

From the words of the great Daniel Fernandez "growing up we're always told, college will be the best time of your life, you should make the most out of college. Bullshit! Wait till 30 and you have money, that shit is Dope! And if you're 30 and you dont have money, you should have made the most of college."

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

I'm sorry, I didn't understand the point. Does it mean you are saying don't explore, money is the most important thing?

MagicalNoodle
MagicalNoodle
MyGate21mo

Chill out guys, I think at the end we all may end up living on Universal Basic Income 😂 No point in hustling unless you are hustling for disproportionate success.

PerkyMuffin
PerkyMuffin

I don't think India will have that anytime soon looking at the amount of scamsters we have

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

Why do you think the post says anything about hustling? It's about figuring out what you like! I can personally say, I am not sure I like the job I do. It's not fully because of the org, but it's because the role doesn't excite me. Hence, I feel it makes sense to explore different roles, responsibilities etc and figure out whats fun for me, what makes me happy!

PrancingPanda
PrancingPanda

Find a mentor/coach in your 20s. You don't need to make mistakes to learn from them. A mentor will help you navigate the uncertainty of 20s. I am in my 30s and am still looking for a mentor. I want to absolutely avoid repeatable mistakes.

PerkyMuffin
PerkyMuffin

Any tips on how to get a mentor?

PrancingPanda
PrancingPanda

I am not sure. I still haven't found my mentor. I guess going to networking events might help.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
Oracle21mo

20s is for heads down and make your own career. There are no shortcuts. Heads down and focus on work.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

No one said 20s is about shortcuts. All my ask was, do you feel 20s is about exploration or about career building?

DancingMochi
DancingMochi
Slice21mo

I'm in my early 20s right now. I was working in an analytics consulting firm, but I realised that I'm more into business roles and not into technical roles. I am currently looking for jobs in that domain. I still haven't landed a job. Although I'm scared I don't regret my decision to quit.

GigglyNarwhal
GigglyNarwhal

So MBA?

DancingMochi
DancingMochi
Slice21mo

I mean I'm trying to switch to similar roles right now. I aim to go for an MBA abroad from M7/LBS/INSEAD, which would require excellent workex of 4-5 years approx. Hence trying to land good jobs right now

FloatingWalrus
FloatingWalrus
Student21mo

If you can try spending at least a couple of years in a non-English speaking European country as a student or a worker, please do it. I did this and it has completely changed me and for good.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys21mo

How? Can you explain? @ForkedRim84

FloatingWalrus
FloatingWalrus
Student21mo

You will learn to appreciate small things in India more. The food and weather (sunlight wise) is unbeatable in India. You will meet so many people from other cultures and will learn the best of all Worlds. E.g. i learnt that we indians are overly obsessed with money and work. Which is not the case for many other cultures. I can go on and on.

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