Based on comments Jo career pe focus Kiya use chahiye ladki, aur Jo ladki pe focus Kiya use chahiye career. Grass is always greener on other side.
Owning a house.
I seen the rent and prices double in the last 9 years but salary/savings didn't grow at the same rate.
Not asking people to invest in 3 bhks but evena 2bhk investment would have helped me a lot in value capture and passive income.
Not investing adequately in equity (stocks/mutual funds) and using debt instruments instead (PPF, FD). Being caught up in work and not going to family gatherings. No one but me now remembers all those days when I used to work till very late and on weekends
This is the biggest and maybe the only regret I am having now
Focusing -excessively- on career and not living a fuller life (travel, spontaneous shit, sacrificing health).
YOE?
13 years.
No ragrets!
What’s done is done. No point crying over it. Some really bad things happened but they’ve made me who I am and I am content.
The point is not to cry ..it is just to put it here so that young folks can see the various path people have taken along with the outcomes..so that they can make an informed choices.. your wisdom and experience will help them show the path
Not investing in equity from early years of career
27
regret picking mechanical engineering
Regret not moving abroad
Regret quitting research during pandemic and doing bullshit back office job
Enough damage done for life
Fear making any new move which I feel I would regret again
It will all make sense in a few years once u see them... Remember we can only connect dots backward
Umar nikal jayegi tab tak (will get old by then) Friends are getting married/moved place Jo kuch bache hai - the spending capabilities/activities will cost No meaningful job, efforts getting wasted, not earning good, losing friends (friends naam kah hi rahte hai) will have you enough regrets
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[ also hoping to have some responses from people in their 30s & 40s for insights ]
pls don’t say boards dene ki jagah crypto kharidna tha 2014 me🫠
Not upskilling and staying in TCS since 4+ years. Biggest blunder of my life. I feel like flogging myself and killing...
It can be anything related to not doing something you always wanted to but never did, a mistake you realize you shouldn’t have made, or feelings of not being successful enough. Feel free to share your thoughts.
Failed to spend enough time with my parents. Life moves really fast. If you're around your parents take care of them,...
prioritised fitness really late, ignored everyone's advise, ate shit food all the time, was smoking and drinking. s...
Not studying hard enough to get education from a good college and Marriage 🤐
