DancingNugget
DancingNugget

Socialising at job as an adult

Software engineering is a super competitive environment. People gaslight you every now and then. Every second person would be jealous of your growth. I’m having a hard time keeping myself calm because of all the subtle workplace bullying.

What do I do to preserve my mental health?

3mo ago
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FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

No, you're wrong. You can't generalize like this about the whole software engineering industry. I have worked for a number of companies in my career, and every company's culture is different. Many companies have terrible work culture, and many are better.

Sounds like you're stuck in some really toxic workplace. Start interviewing and move out ASAP to a company with better culture & WLB, in order to preserve your mental health, and to prevent burnout. Good luck! 👍

DancingNugget
DancingNugget

Have my first interview next week. Got any tips?

DancingNugget
DancingNugget

Thanks

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

I'll tell you one thing from my experience DO NOT TOLERATE BULLYING. Give it back to the bullies, do give it back.

DancingNugget
DancingNugget

How do I give it back ? I’m not mean by nature

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