DizzyNoodle
DizzyNoodle

Stuck in relationship and job issues

Heya... New to this app... Experiencing a hard life like others (in this era mostly are struggling) been in a serious relationship it's been 5 years all things are going good but family is not convinced for marriage my side family is good with it but other end family is problematic it's like if this marriage happens they all will die n blah blah this is basically drowning me mentally apart from this complicated job not have good terms with my manager somehow he is trying me leave this job by myself..... So my question after stucking in so much things how to live life

7mo ago
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SwirlyQuokka
SwirlyQuokka

#following.. Dealing with the same

DizzyNoodle
DizzyNoodle
IBM7mo

How you are dealing that in a positive way?

SwirlyQuokka
SwirlyQuokka

Lost my job. I was the best performer in my team, was working with the startup. But because of all this is was unable to work, due to which I lost my job. Still looking for a new one!
Sorry couldn't motivate you here but trust the time..it will heal everything :/

GroovyKoala
GroovyKoala

Relationship and marriage is totally different thing. Family denies for marriage but no good people say they kill themselves. I have seen this kind of people and better to stay away coz they can accuse you of harrasment after marriage and things can go wrong.

You may ignore this red flag coz love is blind but the court case is a real thing. Thoroughly check the background of your partner before getting married even if you are in relationship. Consult therapist, lawyer before you take any decision.

You can get through the job issue. But dealing with stupid in-laws for the rest of your life is like hell. Thik practically and take wise decision.

SleepyTaco
SleepyTaco

Consult therapist

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY7mo

Best of luck for your future.

JazzyPretzel
JazzyPretzel

All the best to you friend

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