Both the genders are openly saying "WE DON'T WANNA GET MARRIED / WHATS THE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE / ALL GUYS/GIRLS ARE THE SAME"
Think from a broad perspective and not from an individual perspective - are we intentionally being puzzled to think like this? I know there are a lot of things happening against the women and men other there after marriage. But it's just a minority part. Do we stop searching for a job if the news is saying "Employment is at peak in last 20 years"? Then why are we running away from marriage.
I want to know your honest opinions. This is a puzzling time for a lot of us.
I see it as a conspiracy to break the household society into society of playboys and hoes where all of us are spending money on dru*s, clubs to think if we can get happiness from here. Rather than happiness from a good married life.
Employment is a necessity, marriage isn't.
So, no matter the layoffs, no matter the working conditions, people do work to find jobs as that puts the food in their plate.
Also, Puzzled by who?
Our thoughts on everything is shaped by what we read, our surroundings, what we observe etc. So, in a way, all of them are learnt via "puzzling"
I think you are putting too much thought into this conspiracy.
@CharmingCalmMan the conspiracy is running since years and from every side now a days. U see folks are getting infertile in their early 30s. Majority of them have bad food habits. Today's generation biggest issue is they think 'Pyaar karna' aur 'pyaar nibhana' both are same thing. Everyone wants a comfort zone but not ready to change to offer 'sukoon' to the better half. The true happiness is sitting with a person on a fine eve on the lake shore and just being silent. Looks like hardly 1 out of 100 understand this. There are many more such things i can write. But thats it for now.
I think that this thing will increase.
Marriages will be less and less ,less fertility,less kids ,less population.
People nowadays think that marriage and kids are a burden.
The effect of these things will be seen after 15-20 years when this thing would be scaled
It has become a burden because of biased law. It’s an indirect effect of all these things.
I agree that laws are biased but I think people need to find workarounds. Be smart and take precautions in the marriage but shouldn't be at all stop thinking about/doing the marriage
If someone realised greater purpose in life they can skip marriage. If someone achieved greater balance at a spiritual level they too can skip it. If you are skipping for the sake pleasures of youth, you will fall soon. The problem with youth is that there is a surge of hormones and a feeling of greater clarity without knowing the full story of life. Getting married, bearing children and going through the grind is a much better longer term equation for average people.
Thats so thoughtful
Its not conspiracy theory. You will get your answer in the first few pages of book Robert Glover - No more mr nice guy.
Bharat is a nation with an unlimited pool of Dharmic Parenting (the benefits of which the world is enjoying), combined with Dharmic approval to keep on questioning and develop oneself.
The future is bright only until our great women choose to instill values in the next generation over some 9 to 7 slavery under unknown bosses, especially during the formative years of the infant.
(Any human body who faces the brutal market abuse of surviving in the competition of the market is psychologically not fit to instill values in children, most notably job-going men 😃
Men, as fathers are more fit to teach life skills or market skills but those are no use if the child is clueless about values which drive fair execution of those skills)
Contribution of mothers to the economy is probably ten times more than any single individual contributing with a job as these women single handedly empower 4-5 members of the family at all times.
Unfortunately we failed as a society to value and respect these women
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Nil respect is one of the faults. But it's also the western-marxist feminism and the distortion of women's nature itself too, which is at fault here.
I think, modernity, presents an extremely whitewashed and distorted version of femininity to society. Again, I am not saying this line is correct, but there must be some reason that all successful religions and cultures, all of them, natively, have limited individual authority, but more so of women than men. Theories such as the 'war bride theory' shed more light on this.
The vision of working from scratch to build wealth has made so many families be in middle class Dowry also pushed families from wealthy to working class Raising kids as frustrated, tired individuals - Such a shitty arrangement imo
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