GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

What are the essential attributes and values you seek in a life partner?

Here's my list (27F)-

  1. Financial Responsibility (by this I mean stability, and not unrealistic LPA expectations. However I'd definitely lookout for attributes such as debt management, spending habits, savings goals, etc).
  2. Loyalty (this quality is of utmost importance, non negotiable)
  3. Shared values (Integrity, honesty and spirituality)
  4. Respect and inclination towards our families and culture (especially if we belong to different communities/regions)
  5. Ambitious and hardworking (i do not seek for someone with family's net worth, but will definitely choose a person who makes it/is making it from scratch, who has his goals chalked out, and who is working hard to achieve them. Potential>Present NW)
  6. Good communicator (especially reassurances and words of affirmation)
  7. Empathetic, emotionally available and kind.
  8. Family (should be kind, accepting and respectful towards me cuz let's be honest, I'm marriages in india aren't just about husband and wife)
  9. Last but not the least, ADVENTUROUS, SENSE OF HUMOUR and SOMEONE WHO IS ROMANTIC. ๐Ÿฅฐ

I've made it a point not to have unrealistic, or extravagant expectations. Let me know what qualities y'all have seeked/are seeking in your better half โค๏ธ

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PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

BC apni sari generation Kunwari maregi.....

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

โ€œpopulation collapse due to low birth rates is a much bigger risk to civilization than global warming.โ€ @Elon_Musk can work with @President_Trump to resolve this :)

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Better kunware than be with someone jo har jageh mu maare

JazzySushi
JazzySushi
EY4mo

A list of 9 red flags to look for in a woman

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

I hope this comment makes sense to you cuz it doesn't to me

FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

@uniqueorn extremely fair.. practically, all these qualities you won't find in a single guy๐Ÿ˜Š still i wish u get the one.

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Dhundne se toh bhagwan bhi mil jatay, ye toh sirf pati hai ๐Ÿคญ

GroovyBagel
GroovyBagel
SAP4mo

I hope you find someone with these qualities, but in the long run what will matter the most is how much you both understand each other.
There will always be differences between partners in terms of thoughts, habits and many more things. But how you both respect each other's differences will pave a common path to happiness. ๐ŸŒบ

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Very wholesome comment โค๏ธ

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Finally some sensible expectations from a F. Almost there, need to learn cooking, and Iโ€™m ambivert. But looking at my current scenario lagta hai single hi marunga ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿฅฒ

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Bhai muje bhi yehi lgrha hai, but this fact kills me daily atleast once

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Don't wory fried, you're gonna find someone amazing ๐Ÿซฐโœจ Also cooking toh mujhe khud nahi aati, but definitely should've added someone who can cook to the list lol, nahi toh dono bhuke ๐Ÿ˜‚

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

@uniqueorn I don't mean this comment with hostility but could you also share about yourself?

I ask this to all my female counterparts looking for a partner.

Let's be honest, a person with even 75% of these qualities will most likely seek someone with approx same level of maturity. Simply, why would a partner like this choose you over someone else?

It's a two way road right?

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

This list is well equated with my own traits as a person, only apart from the fact that my financial planning sucks ๐Ÿ˜… No unrealistic/idealistic bs here friend

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

เคฎเฅเค‚เคฌเคˆเคšเคพ เคšเคพเคฒเฅ‡เคฒ เค•เคพ ๐Ÿ˜‰

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel
QuirkyNarwhal
QuirkyNarwhal

another hopless romantic person in a era where people will judge you first and check your status. although, i would say your points are valid and expected from partner.

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Isn't this the bare minimum? ๐Ÿฅบ

GroovyWaffle
GroovyWaffle

Out of curiosity, how many people do you want to marry at once? Itna sab ek me nhi milega ๐Ÿ˜‚

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel
GigglyBanana
GigglyBanana

Madam is list mein bacha kya sara to likh diya aapne, also considering loyalty is utmost importance you put it under finance๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel

Shit I missed that one, but Finances are important, aren't they? ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜

GigglyBanana
GigglyBanana

Thats why they say.... its her choice๐Ÿ˜‚

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