Who pays on the first date?
... whoever's idea it was to go on the date
... whoever's idea it was to go on the date
Yea and who should pay for pregnancy related expenses?..... obviously whosoever is pregnant?
If you want men to pay for your date, say so. No point in making circumstances which are gender unequal, sound as a 50:50 to work in a particular gender's favour.
I never understood why people think date is a one sided thing. You shouldn't go on a date where someone just asked you and you don't feel like it. If you feel like it, you should be an equal contributor.
Otherwise you are just adding one more name to the list of girls who go on dates only for free food.