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SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth

Why cant I find someone who understands me !

No context. Self explainatory.

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WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin
Stealth11mo

if everyone else is the problem, maybe you are the problem

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

Excuse me? I understand what youre trying to hint at but this may not be the most civilized way to write that !

Well yeah if people are as rude as you perhaps its best to avoid them

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin
Stealth11mo

if you know what I'm trying to say, how about you understand it in a civilized manner ?

SillyMarshmallow
SillyMarshmallow
Freshworks11mo

it's probably because you are not showing OUT yourself more

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

So that people can conveniently use me and throw me?

QuirkyWalrus
QuirkyWalrus
Stealth11mo

Can't make an omlette without breaking eggs

SparklyDonut
SparklyDonut
Zomato11mo

Why do you need an external source to understand you.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

Human beings are social beings who thrive on extrernal validation. Unlike few monks, most of us need it periodically.

SparklyDonut
SparklyDonut
Zomato11mo

I wouldn’t disagree but the internal validation is permanent. External is always temporary and changes to the situation.

DancingTaco
DancingTaco
Flipkart11mo

Sabka yahi haal hai…so chill

FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala
Stealth11mo

Other people are not magicians who can automatically understand you. No one can see inside your head. You have to constantly be open, and communicate & explain your perspective to others.

No one understands anyone automatically, and so constant communication is the key.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

Makes sense

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean
Stealth11mo

Do you understand others well enough though 🤔

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

0 Reciprocity

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean
Stealth11mo

Very weird tbh, I guess we spoke on this before as well

Either you don't have a good circle of people, or there's something off with your perception

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka
Stealth11mo

☹️yes true same here

GroovyKoala
GroovyKoala
Accenture11mo

Bhai Gurgaon sec 22 aao chill kro kya kroge itna sad rhker Ek hi life h

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle
Stealth11mo

Hein ! aisa kya hai waha pe ?

ZippyLlama
ZippyLlama
PayTM11mo

2nd stage of loneliness

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito
Affirm Data11mo

You will find that person because he or she is also looking out for you. Be positive and be happy.

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