Is having a crush in the office good or bad?
I like someone in my office, but not getting the courage to tell that person. because i have created my image like a good person who will not do such things in the office area. Getting questions in mind like: What if that person informed about this to my seniors? What if any problem came to my career? What to do now?
Agar bhagwan ne achhi shakal ya paisa dono mai ek bhi diya hota toh ek question mai nahi puchta aaj 😭😂😂
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tenet
Stealth
3 months ago
Thoda impress kro use, See if she is also into you, Ask her out if you think she is interested, career to ban jayega, pyyar mushkil se milta h
In my team 5 people have spouses from same company only. Its not un-nice to ask someone for a coffee if you like them. Just read their body language and never make them uncomfortable.
1. Have lunch with that person
2. Find common interests
3. If they are directly linked with your project, and if luck is by your side KT sessions can be used as a leverage.
4. Chai pe charcha
5. Do small good gestures.
6. Ask if you can drop them after office.
7. Ask directly to have evening coffee after work.
Small steps goes a long way.
Us bro us😭. I am now on notice period and going to move to different city. Don't know should I confess before leaving?
Bol de bhai ab toh tera mauka, jab akeli hoti hai na tab jaake bol de ki, You look very cute to me but i didn't get dare to express it.
satorugojo
Stealth
3 months ago
What's wrong in asking ?
Rather than contemplating about the the permutations you could have an answer answer closure.
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samosa
Stealth
3 months ago
i remember those days, i used to go to office after completing my night shift, just to spend some time with her. People used to question what the hell i'm doing in the office
BiryaniEnthu
Stealth
3 months ago
If you don't tell anyone, it is good
Also, remember the POSH training
Donut
Stealth
3 months ago
There’s a saying, dont shit where you eat which is true for office romances haha. If you are fine with putting your job on the line then only go for it. Cause you can’t control whom all the person will tell it to. So in my opinion its not worth it, and if they reciprocate then its a different situation, you won’t be confused then
Bro leave all this and figure out a way to stabise your life first else you would be stuck doing slavery for services companies throughout your life.
Don’t be spineless. Have some guts.
Ask her out for coffee or something.
If she says no. Leave it warna posh lagne k chances h.
You won’t get directly posh. Pehele ek do baar larki ko deny karna parega tumko, ya phir start m bas warning milega . So chill.
And yeah coffee k liye plan this way. Ask her + someone common or may be one of your friend and pre plan so that your frnd leaves inbetween. So its now you and her🙂
Njoy
Dsa wala demag yahan bhi laga lo ho jayega kaam
is she a stranger or u know that person, if u know then maybe tell otherwise first know her
and dont tell directly anyways first try out asking if she would join for tea or coffee or lunch or whatever start slowly
We work on the same project, but she is in a different team. Whenever we get face to face we just smile
Brutallyhonest
Stealth
3 months ago
How is this a binary question ⁉️
Brutallyhonest
Stealth
3 months ago
Binary answer is: Don't
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AnonymousActivist
Stealth
3 months ago
It's a coping mechanism. But don't let it grow into obsession, where it withholds you from changing jobs.
When we are away from family and friends, things like this makes us feel a fresh air. Don't stalk them which might make them uncomfortable. Steal glances.
