Single people of Blr - how are you enjoying your life?

Recently shifted here to blr, i'm new here and literally know no one here. What should I do after work/weekends? How do I make friends and go out ?

Holi hai? Diwali hai? So what, nothing to enjoy. Lets spend the day laying on the bed, watching stuff over phone. Feeling less and less disconnected with friends, to the point where I feel I don't even have friends. College friends are based in another city. Didn't even try to make friends at workplace. Stuck alone in my homecity as past 6 years I was based somewhere else completing my grad and preparing for jee. Prior to that focused a lot on studies. So had little to no interaction with people during academics. And now when I have time and money to spend, there is noone with whom I can have fun with.

Hello folks. Got a nice 4 day office role in Hyderabad as a SPM, have been working remotely till now in BLR. I was laid off and interviewing for past couple of month being very picky wrt culture and domain etc. Is it wise moving to Hyderabad (Hitech city/Gachibowli) - when I've been in BLR since a couple of decades now with family? Need help!

Hey Folks. Here for some advice… Context: I’m 37. MBA+Engg Grad working. Big Blr Startup. Good Role in Biz. Married (Started dating 12 years back & then got married). I’m an extrovert/fairly social (Mostly hang out/around other people/friends around a similar life stage - age/work). Most of my friends from School, Engg & B-School are all over the place (we meet once in a year types), no one in Bangalore. Hanging around with people at work is not something I like to do more than once in a month. My wife, on the other hand, has a good set of friends, with whom I hang out quite regularly (guys & girls). For a while now, I’ve been thinking of investing some time into making friends/building relationships outside of my social circle (Not that I’m looking to cheat on my wife, but then sometimes it’s good to hang out with people who aren’t your partner’s friends or are already part of your existing work/social circle). In short - I’d like to meet unconnected new people. And I’m realizing that at my age, it’s not so easy to do so without seeming creepy. About a year back, I met an ex-colleague (28F) over drinks (She was in town and asked if we could meet) - Super attractive and smart. It has 12+ years since I’ve randomly met anyone from the opposite sex alone for a meal/conversation (outside of a work meeting). At first, it was super awkward - uncomfortable pauses, loss of words, asking dumb questions, etc. Luckily, in a bit, alcohol kicked in and then it got much better… We still text & meet if we’re in each other’s cities with some time to spare. That’s when it hit me that I was good at making small talk, but have no idea what to talk about when it’s someone who’s some 10+ years younger. Seems like another generation (which it probably is)… While I felt so, I must also admit, I had a great time to be honest - the conversations were energizing/different and to be honest, a tad exciting too. 1/2

What do you think of this split ? What would you change?

Hi, Anyone living in hyderabad currently? I am basically from chennai currently living in bengaluru. Likely to shift to hyderabad.. ->How is Hyderabad city? ->I am a single guy, what would be the average cost of living per month (considering a simple/miser life style) ->What about options to explore the city/weekend getaways? (Not a night or party person rather wanna explore places, travel and eat) ->How about food options and accommodation in general?(me being a veg) Just share your experience and insights ... Happy morning.

Ive always been a person who likes the company of himself and every weekend I chill with my friends and this has been going on since past 5-6 years. Offlate where ever we go we seee couples and get feeling that we are missing out on something. I have also explored these dating apps with all premium membership but I don't think it is of any use all fake profiles of women looking to scam only come up. Any genuine person who is interested to date please dm.

Can be a list too. But Only unmarried men

I am a 26/M/60+LPA/IITian Software Engineer at a FAANG. I have spent most of my time travelling places with my friends/solo and have dedicated a significant portion of my small life to my career, and I am quite happy with it. I am confused about one thing tho, should I get married? given I am happy living like this, I just want to hear what men have to say on this, I want to know given a chance would you guys get married? If yes how to check if a woman is a fine fit for you? I made a rule to only date a woman who makes at least 70% of my salary OR has an excellent academic background AND should be humble. With these set of rules the chances of finding a girl is almost slim to none given ratio at good colleges and at high paying tech jobs are like that 🤧, I am sure people won't find these rules good, but I want to know if I am being stupid pls correct me it will help me reshape my thinking. Help me guys 🫡.