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We live in a very 'sexualized' world: Instagram and P*rnhub

I feel so. Everywhere, online. Instagram, Reddit, Twitter even. Everywhere you go, just women incentivized to show more body. Not that there's anything wrong with that, people should wear what they find comfortable. But I feel as a man, it can be pretty distracting because it's not your original intention to get distracted. And then of course everything the porn industry has created. I wonder if men were like how we are, 100 years ago from now. Did they also get as frequently disturbed? Or was staying focused more easy. Was having a family life also easier because of this? I wonder. Would love to know your thoughts. P.S: I absolutely do not wish to make women feel like what they're doing is wrong. I don't think it is. I'm just sharing my views of what it does to me, as a man.

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How to get matches on dating apps 101

By far the most common question I've seen from guys online is how to get matches. 0. Get good pictures of yourself clicked if you don't have any. Strictly no selfies. Also try and avoid profiles with too many selfies (it usually means they don't have enough friends in life which is a red flag). 1. Pictures shouldn't be old/outdated. Always upload recent ones. One or two should be of you doing something interesting (with friends, some hobby/activity) and your face and body should be visible clearly. Have at least 1-2 pics where full body is visible. 2. Do not have more than 3 sentences in your bio. Don't try too hard to describe yourself in a profile (don't fill up that profile to 100% details filled). Leave some space for mystery. 3. OBSESS over bio introduction. It should be crisp, witty and error free. It will make or break your profile. 4. Gym pics and car pics are a hit and miss. Some will go for it, others won't. Different personalities will go for different things. Upto you which kind you want to attract. 5. If you have pics with female friends, can add one. Women trust other women to select men. If you already have healthy female friendships, that's a green flag for them. Do take permission from your friends though. And it should be a group pic, not one where it's just you and one woman. They would assume that's your gf/ex, which is red flag for many. Just do this much and it will definitely boost your matches.