[Controversial] Why are men getting hurt by men and women alike?

I grew up with 5 sisters (1 real and 4 cousin), I am aware about the pain and the tribulation that women go through and have always been supporting women in general. I was shocked to see the opposite when I stepped into the real world. Most women whom I have met have only disposed me after using my resources. Be it a friend or even a prospective gf. Even my lady therapist offered the same solution indirectly by saying that things work differently for men. I have always responded to their rants and have comforted them. But when it was my chance to vent out, they were like YOU ARE A MAN YOU SHOULDNT BE BOTHERED BY MENTAL ISSUES, FOCUS ON YOUR WORK. I feel bottled up and sometimes end up breaking down. These are the people I have been knowing for ages. The other day I randomly started slapping myself for no reason in the washroom. I dont feel like I am being heard. I dont want such a life where I am being left alone for feeling the same things a woman would feel. I feel that the only thing I am good for is making money. Afterall, thats what men are supposed to be. This is a punishment for breaking my mould and I accept that. I have been very empathetic so far. NEVER AGAIN. I love myself and only myfuckingself nowww. There is this book called "Men are from jupiter Women are from venus" which clearly states that when women are in misery, make them feel heard. And when men are in misery, leave them alone. QUEEN , RATHER PLS K!LL US ALREADY. Why are kind men being subjected to the punishment which bad men (rapist, dowryfreaks, cheaters) deserve? Why do I see bad men getting so much attention and respect? Why are we still adulating Ranbir Kapoor's charachter for cheating on Rashmika just coz Tripti was attractive? Being emotional is such a curse for men ! Dear men, Please focus on your LPA and provide for your parents, future wife ,and kids, and when youre old enough, JUST ROT AND D!E. The moment you dont, you will be treated like hell.

Is it just on this platform or irl as well? They won't point out insecurity in men, but rather help him device a breakup strategy Men feeling sad or down are advised to go on treks???!! Beer won't solve everything, and you know that

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I will keep it short. So I know this guy who goes to the same gym as me, The dude always looked kinda lonely so I would often greet him good morning or howdy, However, I never got a chance to sit and talk to him as he always seemed in a rush, Yesterday, I saw him talking to one of those E-Girls on Instagram in the locker room, you know the ones which offer sexual video calls in exchange of a few thousand rupees, I unintentionally read the chat while he was reaching out for his sipper, And I saw "I dont want to have sex, I just want to talk to a real woman about my mental issues" something While this sounded absurd and funny to me in the first moment of reading it, It left a resounding wave of abyss in me. On how some people could be extremely lonely , and all they need is a hug !!!! While his actions may not be the most mature of all, I do recognize this feeling. Afterall, Duniya mein bohot gamm hai, Apna dukh toh fir bhi kam hai.

Was speaking to two of my friends (from GV) on this topic. One was supporting, and one against. As a fellow female on Grapevine, I think it is not necessary. If only we stop treating women as second gender, and just see them as basic humans, a lot of things will change. To let people have a safe space to voice opinions, does not need a secluded room. So many of us are unaware of problems (physical, mental, emotional) others face, this platform does a great job in bringing all at one place.

And accept that some part of the human brain is capable of great violence and atrocious behavior. It’s this part that is left unschooled amongst the rapists and the murders. We should work towards a society where we identify and radically weed out such men. They are viruses that don’t have a place in our society from the get go. They’re viruses that should actually be killed and squashed as early as it can be. They don’t deserve a court proceeding and jail time is not enough as a punishment.

I have seen 5 post of the Bombae razor ad on this platform, and how people found it 'offensive' Ask yourself - if it wasn’t one of the thoughts when you saw her picture, apart from being happy for her achievement I am a woman, and I am ashamed that society made my mind think facial hair as abnormality. Class 10 to 12 are a hormone ruckus, that's where problems start, probably for men too The agency made money, don't attach too many emotions to ads. Last month someone 'died' to raise awareness

A Man has lot more responsibilities than women. Family, career, love. Why do Men mental health being so ignored. We don't share like women do but we are going through a lot. We are not expressive by nature. Our society shows so much love, respect to women why not same for MEN? Why aren't they treated equal? What do you guys feel?