Be Resilent Not Sensitive

This question is to people who are in their late 20s or older. Life shows its ups and downs to pretty much everyone. And when you are younger, living with adverse situations that impact your mental peace and health, paving your way becomes difficult. All this can lead to uncertainty about future, can make you doubt yourself and your decisions, or can make you think whether you would be able to make something of yourself or not. If you ever felt like this, how did you handle it? What would you tell your younger self about how to navigate through these situations and feelings?

Hello Viners Hope you have had a great weekend This Post is just to appreciate each other that whatever we are going through is fine There is always a brighter side to the things Recently I also dealt with many things in life , But yet there was always one person or the other who said to me that I'm proud of you of what you have done and there will always be something better on the other side trust the god's plan So let's make this post Just a Thought of Appreciation Share Anything you want to , Whatever how small the accomplishment it might be Let's gather along and appreciate the person just to show them some love Because you never know what a person might be going Let's make this a Nice Post ❤️

What would you answer

The things you will take care of or do after the layoff

For the Pride Left Behind For The Kindness that was sowed when I was a child With the empathy I felt for the hearts around For the love I saw in everyone's eyes The warmness everyone carried in themselves Was I late I don't know I didn't seek revenge on myself Nor a war As a Adult I realised I seek Calmness The battle that carried himself over the years The criteria to win was to loose upon himself The scars that I carried Were after all the Pride I heart The uneasiness I fealt Was to do the good always The light that shine Was after all the hope that was always within me How could I Forget? The life I lived was a blessing The problems, The solutions The journey blessed by my ancestors.

The obsession I regret the most in my life is the all or nothing behavior. Where, - I'll apply for a job only after knowing everything there is to know for a role. This is why I used to see people with half my knowledge applying and getting jobs and moving ahead in life. I used think it's so unfair that they achieve in all aspects of their life and I in none... - I'll date someone only when I know I am the perfect version that I envision for myself - I'll only take photos when I am in my perfect shape. If I don't have 8 abs, I don't deserve photos! - I'll stop questioning whether I am good enough only when I achieve everything else I am a loser I just was very cruel to myself for my own imperfections! This instilled a fear in me that shattered my spirit, self confidence and self worth. I ended up being afraid to pick anything up. If I couldn't stay course in something and for some reason I wasn't able to do something for a day or 2, my perfectionism mindset said, that's it, I am a failure and I thought, nothing can be done now and gave up This resulted in I procrastinating in things. Why to work hard, I am never gonna make it... I have 100 things to do in life else I am failure but I don't have time to do all that in this lifetime. Perfectionism results in not doing anything! After meeting people, self introspection and podcasts from people, I realised its okay to mess up, its okay to fall down. I should dust myself off and continue! It is so hard now to change yourself after years of disappointment. You need so much positivity and letting go of perfectionism. You need self love and kindness... TLDR - Don't be like an OCD person obsessing over things to go exactly the way they want! Don't reject yourself due to failures/setbacks. Dust yourself off and move ahead! It's okay to be imperfect as long as you promise to be consistent!