I feel my life is extremely difficult after demise of my beloved father at the age he should have not left us this early he was 51 and now without him my life is just extremely difficult in all aspects , people around me , relatives , career aspect marriage aspect future everything just scares me and i feel i cannot reach out to anyone for my help not even my mother with my problems I feel if i reach out to anyone they just shut it like dont overthink , please stop with your negativity I just dont know how to get on with life He was like shield to us Now i dont know even me , my mom , my sibling has changed like anything Nothing feels good anymore
Sorry for your situation, and I can relate to your emotions I had losted my father at the age of 21 ,my brother is younger to me and mom .. being elder daughter of the family I took my weak emotions as my strength for my brother and mother..now I'm 25F I'm so strong emotionally ..you can't forget the things but you can add on your life with good walking of your beloving father..me myself was in depression for atleast 3years from then but time heals everything..try to engage in any activity .stay strong and courageous 💪🏻🔥
I can relate to your pain. I lost my uncle 8 years back. I couldn't express my feelings then(don't know how to in front of people) but, everytime I remember him now, I feel sad he isn't there with me.
I had gotten more love and care from him than my own parents and his love for me was more than he gave to his own child. He was my godfather.
I have lost so many people, but, his absence is the thing I hate the most in my life! I wish if he was here, he could help me out with the shit I am going through! When everyday is a despair, he would've been a glimmer of hope for me
@Shif , this does get easier, but you don't stop missing him!
If you need someone to talk to who's not judgemental, I am here. Take care!
With respect to your career part, GV Community is ready to help you !!!
Heartfelt condolences... I can't imagine the pain of losing a parent. Grieving is a normal part of the process.. It's natural to have so many emotions and changes... Take as much time as you need to vent/cry/mourn/express your feelings. If you can't find anyone to talk to, just take some time off the world. Shut the noise, go to a park or some place green, sit down, write how you feel, cry your heart out and remember that if there is even a miniscule chance that your father can see you, he'd want you to be happy.. So live your life for him, for your mother and for that sibling who might be equally sad about the loss... You'll miss him for sure, but he'll always live in your hearts and in those bittersweet memories! 🥰
Sorry for your loss @Shif 😥.
This is the time when you have to strong and believe in yourself.
We are here to hear you.
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