SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Crippling Trust Issues : Why cant I connect with fellow humans?

I have lost all the trust and dont even trust my shadow anymore.

But then, Human relationships thrive on trust. Its forms the fulcrum of every bond.

This puts me in a difficult situation where I cant offer trust but seek a deeper and lost lasting connection

I just feel that people leave me. Most of them did, When I hit my low.

But as they say, The comeback has to be stronger than the setback. I am moving towards bigger things in life and am still haunted by this fear of not being able to connect.

9mo ago
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SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

What do you want to trust people with?

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Reciprocity.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

Reciprocity of what?

JumpyTaco
JumpyTaco

Hope you find valuable companionship mate.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Actually I do find good people around me

Its just that the relationship doesnt last long It starts to get weak once it starts to feel deep

JumpyTaco
JumpyTaco

Maybe reset your expectations, from people, their time, energy, resources.

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

Same is the case with me. I have awesome friends who trust me with everything but no matter what happens, I’m just not able to trust them back.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

"Iss duniya me sabke apne apne chehre hai
Yeh tere muh pe tere hai Aur mere muh pe mere hai "

FloatingCupcake
FloatingCupcake

Don't trust anyone but self is one of the best advice I got in my life. Don't expect anything from anyone

JumpyWalrus
JumpyWalrus

My family is into unsecured Money lending business for SME and their employees. We just work on trust and pure judgement. Although I have deep trust issues when it comes to relatives and friends. But need to have trust while doing business. I feel you.. 🫠🫥

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