Change a thought

See, there are 8 billion people in this world. Now, it's up to you whether you want to be known by these 8 billion people or your 8-10 relatives.

The only time you’ll meet your relatives or log is during marriages or social occasions where they’ll praise in front of your face and bitch behind your bags. It really isnt worth it. Just own whatever you want to do. Be Selfish, that would help :)

🥱 aise yaad rakho ki tumahare struggles mein woh log sath nhi the na hi fees bhare the toh 4 logo ke opinion matter nhi karte

Aisa kar kya raha hai?

Unless you are involved some truly deviant / abhorrent behaviour, what others think doesn't matter.

Also, are people asking you questions or its just you in your mind? If its the former, push them back with - Tu Tera Dekh.

To paraphrase a great thinker - You are the sculptor of your life.

You meet your relatives hardly 3-4 times in a year. And those folks are solely there only to either judge you or be jealous of you. Very few well wishers exist, and I'm not denying it.

Now think whether is it really worth to do things/change your life for these people whom you see like 3/365 days? They owe you nothing and you owe them nothing. You spend 365/365 days with yourself and that is what matters the most. Be true to yourself. You will be called selfish by people who won't move a needle for you. It doesn't matter anyway.

In a world where two people in a relationship want their individuality to be retained, relatives or outsiders are the LAST bunch of people you should even consider.