Feeling nothing after a good appraisal
I got my first salary after getting my cash CTC increased from 22 to 29LPA I thought I’d be happy but I just checked my bank account and closed it. Felt nothing. No differential feeling / experience for even a second YOE: 5 Earlier when my salary moved from 30k to 50k month I used to get the happiness hit for a week but now it’s “meh” even though the difference is much higher. Anyone else rocking the same boat?
LooseGoose
Stealth
2 months ago
^this. Money is a means to an end, not the end goal itself. Better put it to good use if you want to derive meaning and happiness from it.
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Flaneur
Stealth
2 months ago
Beyond 35-40 LPA , any jump less than 15 LPA doesn't even hit coz taxes
Pass on the difference of salary you are getting into our bucket. You anyways won’t feel anything but we don’t mind some extra difference as we got nothing in appraisal 😉
HonestBass
Stealth
2 months ago
Phonepe does give good appraisals i have heard and work life balance is good too. You get home after 9 hrs.
Not sure of truth though
Same happened to me.
I was damn excited when i went from 4lpa to 8lpa & when went from 12lpa to 25 lpa.
Later i didn't feel any happiness when it went to 30 Lpa and then to 44 Lpa and then to 54 Lpa.
CuriousMind13521
Student
2 months ago
Money after a limit has lesser(depreciating) meaning in life.
Invest and forget (with caution)
CuriousMind13521
Student
2 months ago
But still has a crucial role to play in life...depending on your lifestyle changes(spending habits and its experience)
I'm about to experience this in 2 months
Switching from 21LPA to 36LPA.
For now feeling excited 😆 for the money and new tech skills I'm going to gain 😊
Yup, unless the jump is quite high there is no good feeling now. Like if it jumps from 1Lpm to 1.5Lpm(50% increment) then it might feel good.
Bro koi referral hai toh dedo for your unicorn company mujhe bhi aisi type ki feeling chahiye
Since the extra cash is really extra for u. For others it might give more breathing room from EMIs, expense, etc. They would feel more relieved. Also, u never know when u might need the extra u consider extra now in future in case of emergency. Then u would feel happy of getting the raise as it contributed to something. Mindless chasing after money doesn’t yield the emotions one expects
AllMonkey5Saviour
Stealth
2 months ago
What are your Inhand guys 🥲 after Tax please let us know
thecsguy
Stealth
2 months ago
You are at that point where your basic needs and wants are easily fulfilled. Hence when you see the extra money that doesn’t excite you because you have nothing much to do with it.
Best is to get into activities/hobbies could be motorcycling, camping etc. That way you have something to look forward to and that extra money/hike is the enabler
True, money doesn't bring happiness, it is what you choose to buy/do with it, that brings happiness.
Money can't buy happiness, hence proved.
No tax to 30% tax slab...same feeling
12000/m used to give more fun than 2lac/month
Mindset of spending also reduces with time... especially if u have seen enough financial crunch in ur family
Congratulations, you've levelled up in life. Money is no longer an issue for you.
Now, clearing the next level is gonna be a bit tricky because you don't even know the how's and what's of it yet. So the first thing to do now is to find out the goal of this level and then pursue it.
Be prepared for a lot of existentialism in the initial phases of this level, also don't forget to take a chill pill every now and then but don't get too complacent.
It's gonna be fun.
Same here. Got a hike then a promotion with a good hike. Life has not transformed into a magical wonderland. Really evaluating my priorities now because I have lost a lot of friends due to shutting myself off to focus on my career and chasing money.
Kiteretsuu
Stealth
2 months ago
It's a signal that money is no longer a happiness factor for you and you should start working on what you really like if it's not your profession.
It could be solving society problems using tech/business/startup. Could be hobbies or travelling.
SeniorImpostor
Stealth
2 months ago
Are there openings for a frontend dev in your team?
Do one thing as of my personal suggestion if u are ok with😄 jitna bhi kamao uska 15% minimum dan kardo. Not like give money to temple curch masjid , but help peoples / animals who doesn't have food , who are sleeping on road in this heavy rains , who needs medical treatment but money problems , childerns who even don't have single pair of clothes other than their current. I explore in this way and I'm happy with my 25k salary ☺️😊
I feel really happy when I get 4k extra in my monthly inhand of 55k. 😂
There is a number at which all you basic needs are taken care of, and if you are minimalistic then sheer numbers will hardly bring more joy. Start thinking of money in terms of freedom/convenience. If you invest it right it will allow you to take more risk in future, you can choose to do things which excites you more without worrying about money too much.
You can also invest it in hobbies, health, travelling or anything else that makes your life better. Think of what the additional money allows you to do instead of thinking about just numbers.
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