FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

How to deal with taunts of relatives?

I think we all face this, how do you deal with relatives who always try to put you down in every possible way, constantly compare salary, foreign tour, abroad jobs, new car, new home, education institute, vacations , like they are the people who feel happy by making someone hurt or feel bad about themselves. I can't have a comeback because my parents just tell me to bear them for the time being. But sometimes it just piles up and I feel like thrashing them like hulk.

Someone please help me with this. Help me to deal with this, hulk toh ban nahi paunga.

22mo ago
JumpyTaco
JumpyTaco

Lol my parents do this, i have reached 2l per month now they want me to get 4l per month. As if that’s how salary rises🤷‍♂️… & how some cousin is going london and all ..

I listen and ignore , put it into a corner of my brain and never open it. Fuck man now you opened that shit hole…

MagicalHamster
MagicalHamster

That's just toxic. 2lpm is awesome.

JumpyTaco
JumpyTaco

Only a few more months till july , wfh ends then and i will go back to HYD. Never coming back lol🙃🙃🙃

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

Just don’t give a shit about them and outperform. And when they come back just shill your victories in front of their face show them pics etc. And when they say they have done it too tell them it’s about you and it’s special to you, not about them you’re just sharing a small contribution and growth

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

Yeh sahi hai, But they won't stop doing their shit.

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

There’s no need for them to stop once you start being better than them their fragile ego will break

CosmicPanda
CosmicPanda

Just roast them. I do that and they literally shut up and immediately understand not to mess with me.

Bonus points my parents know I’ll give such replies so they wait for them to leave and then we laugh about it together.

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

Ha ha 🤣.

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

Ignore them and live as you wish coz they really don't care, tell them that your gonna be a loser and it's your problem and ask them to eat shit.

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

Taati khao, upar pyaz garnish karke...yeh bolunga Bhai..🤣

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

They don't pay your bills. Period. Now parents get worried that I am not getting affected by these relatives/ family friends

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Why worried?😁

PeppyPickle
PeppyPickle

Piles up 😂🤣

Jokes aside, just ignore man

Whatever you do people will complain, so just make peace with yourself

Very surprised to not see marriage ka taunt 😂😂

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

Han bhai, piles up edit ka option nahi hai isme... 😂😂😂😂. Marriage ki Umar nahi Hui hai... isliye. Ignore karte karte thak gaya hun. Kisi din gali de dunga...muh pe..

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

pile up not piles up 😂 BC edit karne ka option v nahi hai

SquishyLlama
SquishyLlama

Stay silent with a smile and say congrats to the person about whom the relatives are talking.

Do this continuously, the relatives will give up after 5, 10 times

GoofyPenguin
GoofyPenguin

Love your work, and try to be best at it. Earn more than them and they’ll themselves see your big pockets making noise!!!

ZoomyUnicorn
ZoomyUnicorn
Adobe22mo

Nihilism 🤸

FuzzyMuffin
FuzzyMuffin

As I said I can't be hulk... I need to remain human.

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