Nonsense. ...  One violent rape in 130cr population, and a group starts a campaign that we are worse than war torn mogadishu. Or back to partition days.

People have lost ability to differentiate anomaly and  regular.

Consultant

“One violent rape” IS rape you jackass. Even if it is once in a decade. The main problem is your mindset. Step out of the country and see this from a third person pov. India has a VERY BAD rapport when it comes to women safety. 
  
 India constitutes to ONE rape every 16 minutes according to the 2019 report.  
 What are you even morally levelling up about??

Software Engineer

Tech Lead

yeah man! don't let your father get out of your house

I hope this brought you a lot of pride and ego boost! Congratulations 👏🏾

Senior Software Engineer

I am a guy and I am tired of defending my gender 
  
 Some men leave us no choice.

Data engineer

Complete nonsense. It is incredibly funny that one of the cult heroes of Indian feminists is a notorious pimp who forced innocent girls into sex work for money.

Software Developer

This is such a great portrayal of the real life. Kolkata incident is a shock. But who knows how many of such incidents are still being silent right now where people not rasisng their voices due to fear.

Debugger

Fun fact :  
 Gangubai Kothewali was pimp indulged in child prostitution & trafficking.

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Men!

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Why is it that some men show too much interest in you for initial few weeks, like asking for ig and then ig messages. Seeing your stories just about the instant you post it. They tell you about their last break up they can't get over with but still tell you that falling in love is the most beautiful part of life and talk about wanting to settle down - until the time you show interests and hola! They suddenly change their verdicts - suddenly they're no more interested. Suddenly they get busy and don't respond to your messages anymore. 
My question to men, what do you seek from a woman when you are looking for some serious engagements. Whom should one trust with attachments?

Question to men

Also, men, why wouldn't you do this?

Discuss.

Men, why would you do this?

Program Manager

Long post; activity required

Since I increased sharing Adulting (not that adult) posts,
People connected 
People felt good
People felt bad
People were hurt
People realised 
People learnt 
People realised 

Unintentionally, people were hurt, I didn't mean to hurt anyone, but to just share my learnings/experiences with everyone so it might help.

So, this weekend, I've come up with a better picture (& simple).

To men, hope this simple image is related, boosts your heart beat and make you blush/smile (share with us your memory)

To women, you just know how to charm your man (assuming the bigger percentage like to wear a saree)

Once in a while core-memory activity:

All Men: Ask your partner to wear a saree you'd like to see in today 
Extrovert Men: Ask your father/grandfather how your mother/grandmother looked the first time they saw
Introvert Men: Just look for parents wedding album and see how beautiful your mom is.
Single Men: Take learnings on how to drape a saree for the future (from where? youtube?) (don't cry that you're single)

Women: why don't you charm your man in surprise and have a date at home, maybe?
Single Women: charm the single boys or maybe your crush

Also all men: let's remember our crush in saree 😌

Also some genius women: please teach men how to drape a saree in the comments 






P.S: I will not stop sharing learnings/experiences, if that also means Adulting content, as well, but in better ways.

P.S: If you've done any of the above activities, do comment ;)

So the recent Adulting content

Growth Manager

Was speaking to two of my friends (from GV) on this topic. One was supporting, and one against.

As a fellow female on Grapevine, I think it is not necessary. 
If only we stop treating women as second gender, and just see them as basic humans, a lot of things will change.

To let people have a safe space to voice opinions, does not need a secluded room.

So many of us are unaware of problems (physical, mental, emotional) others face, this platform does a great job in bringing all at one place.

Do we need separate community for women on Grapevine?

Is it just on this platform or irl as well?

They won't point out insecurity in men, but rather help him device a breakup strategy
Men feeling sad or down are advised to go on treks???!!
Beer won't solve everything, and you know that

Men give such shitty advices to other men

Founder

Read this post somewhere..Guys what are your views on it.

Men offer nothing.

Project Coordinator

Objectifying men now 🤦‍♀️

On this episode of #BeAManYaar, India’s Most-Loved Launda - Zakir Khan - reflects on his childhood, relationships, his views on the world and of-course, on c...

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every MAN should watch this

Hello, fellow men reading this. I have tried my best to include all my learning and those of my friends. I’ve written this as informally as possible.

Let’s get right into it.

Functionality matters as much as features; your personality will matter as much as your looks.

Your looks or pictures on the app will act as a hook, something that will stop girls from swiping left on the spot.

Looks

- Try going to the gym after work or college, and aim for a lean body. This will bring about the most significant change in you over time and will also encourage a good diet and discipline. Everyone likes a fit and athletic person.
- Experiment as much as possible with your appearance. Look up different hairstyles according to your face shape and A/B test with your barber.
- Consider getting a frame of specs suited to your face shape. For example, a square frame can really bring out your jawline compared to an oval frame.
- Wash your face twice a day, use sunscreen, and drink a lot of water. Your face is how everyone judges you, and if you are glowing and smiling, people will be more positive towards you.
- Maintain proper personal hygiene.

Pictures

- Please don’t fall into the trap of generic guitar/dog pictures. You want your pictures to represent who you are as a person. If you are into scuba diving, include a picture of it. If you like books, get a picture from a bookstore.
- Experiment with different poses and locations. Iterate and iterate to see what works.
- Don’t forget to smile. The last thing you want is for girls to assume you are too serious.
- Your pictures need to be a mirror of you. For example, I smile and laugh 24/7, so all my images are goofy.

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When exactly did men lose their way?

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MEN ☕

I grew up with 5 sisters (1 real and 4 cousin), I am aware about the pain and the tribulation that women go through and have always been supporting women in general.

I was shocked to see the opposite when I stepped into the real world. Most women whom I have met have only disposed me after using my resources. Be it a friend or even a prospective gf. Even my lady therapist offered the same solution indirectly by saying that things work differently for men.

I have always responded to their rants and have comforted them.  But when it was my chance to vent out, they were like YOU ARE A MAN YOU SHOULDNT BE BOTHERED BY MENTAL ISSUES, FOCUS ON YOUR WORK. 


I feel bottled up and sometimes end up breaking down. These are the people I have been knowing for ages. The other day I randomly started slapping myself for no reason in the washroom. I dont feel like I am being heard. I dont want such a life where I am being left alone for feeling the same things a woman would feel. 

I feel that the only thing I am good for is making money. Afterall, thats what men are supposed to be. This is a punishment for breaking my mould and I accept that.

I have been very empathetic so far. NEVER AGAIN. I love myself and only myfuckingself nowww.

There is this book called "Men are from jupiter Women are from venus" which clearly states that when women are in misery, make them feel heard. And when men are in misery, leave them alone. QUEEN , RATHER PLS K!LL US ALREADY. 

Why are kind men being subjected to the punishment which bad men (rapist, dowryfreaks, cheaters) deserve? Why do I see bad men getting so much attention and respect? Why are we still adulating Ranbir Kapoor's charachter for cheating on Rashmika just coz Tripti was attractive? 


Being emotional is such a curse for men !


Dear men, 
Please focus on your LPA and provide for your parents, future wife ,and kids, and when youre old enough, JUST ROT AND D!E. The moment you dont, you will be treated like hell.

(Rant) Why are most women least bothered about men's mental health ?

Someone I follow on Instagram shared, wanted to share here too

Men, buy flowers for yourself! [Click to open full img]

whatever maybe the situation, Self Respect should always be on priority 🙂

If I had to give ONLY one piece of ADVICE to every single guy out there: 👇

I have 3.4 years of work ex in a different domain and now I wish to switch to HR.
Quit my job recently and took a break initially. Today I received an offer for an HR internship.
However, If I start again from scratch, then I might be earning less. My younger sister who just started her career in HR few months back has a permanent job and I have an internship. It would take me a long time to earn a decent amount.

How should I plan my transition now, any guidance would be greatly appreciated.

I also thought to prepare for cat and pursue mba degree, however these top colleges charge way too high fees. My mother is a single parent and I wish to earn instead of leaving my internship/job and pursue mba for two years.

Any insights here would be greatly appreciated, I'm very tensed.

Thanks :)

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