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Now he's her .....

Now he's her .....- Grapevine

Owned him! 🤐

Ufffff!!

Senior software engineer

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They have created the picture of falling in love at workplace . I still doubt on people who met at workplace and got married ....Dude how???

Need to stop watching K-dramas

Analyst

When I was doing my masters in economics last year, I met a girl. I was instantly attracted to her, however never got a chance to ask her out. Eventually I did, and we went out a couple of times. I really liked her but I think she considered me a good friend. I got mixed messages from her. Once, she sends me text messages in the middle of the night asking me to take her to lunch tomorrow and another she doesn't reply back to me. Anyway I persisted but eventually she kinda distanced herself from the relationship after we hooked up. I had fallen for her but she wanted no part of anything. Didn't return my calls or texts, or when she did made up excuses to avoid hanging out. 

So I told her how I felt. She was angry at me for ruining our friendship even though we hooked up, which she instigated. I never saw her again for the 3 months( she went to Delhi for some work) but she called me occasionally if she needed to talk or something.

So she left and we remained in touch via Whatsapp. On one occasion, I made a passing joke as to how she spent time with every dude there but me. She became very offended and we stopped communication. She started it up again but didn't apologise.

Finally, I actually visited Delhi because another friend of mine was getting married and invited me. I didn't visit her because of time constraints and she became pissed, and wouldn't talk to me, accusing me of doing it on purpose. That was 6 months ago.

I'm going to a friends birthday soon and she's gonna be there. 

Would it be bad for me to hold the grudge? Or should I just let it go.

Bear in mind, she avoided me whilst hanging out with others and then accuses me of avoiding her.
I don't wanna be a douche but I don't wanna be a pushover, someone who can call me whenever and I'll come running.

Please help Grapevine! 🙏🏻

Girl Trouble - Am I Bad?

Software Developer

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Me and a friend joined a company together as freshers. Over time we both grew our knowledge and got comfortable with our daily tasks. Our project manager happened to be from around my friend's place, and upon learning that, they both started having frequent conversations and over time became really good with each other while I had never spoken with the manager. And with this, the manager started having a bias towards my friend. And then one day, he asks my friend to take up the assistant team lead (ATL) position without considering anyone else, in spite of having better candidates for the role (people with 5+ years of experience). Now I'm being assigned tasks from my good friend. He sometimes tends to micro manage me, which I really don't like. But what I hate the most is when he assigns me bugs from his tasks, I mean it's his task right, why should I deal with his mess (bugs), and secondly I don't even have any knowledge about his task so wouldn't he himself fix the bugs faster than anyone else? But nope, he just doesn't wanna deal with it, and since he's the boss, he gets to decide who works on the tasks. I'm honestly not liking taking orders from my friend, how do I deal with this situation?

My friend became my boss.

Software Engineer

(Situation)
A boy and a girl had a relation for 6+ years. 
Both worked upon many things be it themselves or career and did enjoy happy moments and each other company. 

Like any other relation, there were disagreements, fightings and arguments. 
And after months of repeating cycle of disagreements and arguments, one fine day a boy is being questioned about his love and was also asked to mention the happy moments both have shared till now? 
A boy was shattered completely and decided to take a break from this relationship to think whether he should continue or add a full stop to it. He conveyed the same to the girl.

To which, Girl took break as a break-up.
And states herself vulnerable and starts to fall for the other person who was her colleague.

Earlier she did state the colleague as a friend and now says she couldn’t hold up her feelings for him (the colleague).

Didn’t she cheat on His 6+years boyfriend?

Is this a cheating?

Founder

Had never told him, was never gonna get married to him anyway (different religion)
Just that his wife isn't as hot as him, kinda let down 🫠

My ex-Office crush got married, why am I sad though 😢

Basically some of my work friends and I went to Thailand. We had a gala time there and explored a ton of places. All of us stayed at this really nice hotel which had a beautiful swimming pool. We went swimming there quite a few times. 

So, I have a DailyObjects bag that I got for free on my purchase. I use this primarily for carrying towel, undergarments, swimsuit, sunscreen etc. Another colleague of mine has the same bag with the same colour. 

He accidentally took my bag and I took his. I got to realise this when I opened the bag and saw swimming trunks and a book. I called to tell him about it and it was too late.

His wife picked up the phone and enquired about why I had placed my undergarments in her husband's bag. I clarified that it is just a mistake and that we accidentally swapped our bags but she was not budging. So I hung up after getting scared.

She has called me 5-6 times in the last week but I am too scared. What should I even do? Whenever I try to explain the situation she starts screaming at me again. It was a simple mistake but this woman is overreacting and my colleague also agrees. 

She's completely psycho and thinks that I am trying to steal her husband.

Colleague's wife is screaming at me on call.

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Few weeks ago I checked Workday and saw that I was not promoted, while other people here were promoted apparently. Apparently, you could check in your workday whether you were promoted or nah.

Anyway, I was disappointed that I was not promoted from C11 to C10 even after working so hard. In my moment of weakness, I confided in my girlfriend. We have been dating for 3 months now. I was in a horrible mood and wanted to let it all out.

She decided to break up with me by the end of that week and said that it wouldn't work out between us. It was a very sad moment for me, after not being promoted and then the break up.

But FINALLLLYYYYYY!!!! I got promoted from C10 to C11. Apparently, workday method was not true for me. I am very happy that I got promoted. I told my family and friends. Since, me and my girl had recently broken up not many people had known about it so someone must've asked about my promo to her.

Now, she's saying that why did I lie to her that I did not get a promo(I did not lie at all) and she wants to get back together and said that she is sorry.

What should I do now? I can't resist her anymore. 

Please help me

C11 to C10 story: My girlfriend left me and now she wants to come back in my life...

Growth Manager

Today is gonna be the last day of my college life 
, There was someone to who i adored a lot , loved a lot ,spent a lot of time together just to hear at the last moment that we are just friends despite of the fact that the things were much more than a friendship ,I blocked her on 21st sept 2023 after one year of beautiful memories i made with her and she tried to reach out to me but couldn't, The bond we shared defined a lot of things and I was there just to let my heart got shattered, maybe she didn't find me compatible or whatever but literally I never thought that things could turn out like this . Tomorrow is the last day of my college, she will come , I'll Also be there , i have memories, regrets , pain together, what will I say to her if she'll try to talk to me ,What should I say , if I will avoid her , i will regret and if she will talk to me then there will b a pain , whatever was there in my heart i have given everything to her , Time will fly but memories will be there...

Last day of my college life...

I work at a startup. And It’s super funny but I think my boss is moonlighting. Here are the facts: 

- he’s hardly focused 
- he’s hardly trying to expand her role at work 
- he’s regularly on external calls taken secretly 
- he doesn’t care to understand what’s going on in other parts of our company

My boss is likely moonlighting

Product Marketing Manager

Me and my girl these days 🫠

Product Manager

Hope it's saved or all my effort will be lost. 🥴

Training her to talk like my wife.

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She's here babe!!

Can be a list too. But Only unmarried men

Unmarried men, what is that you seek in your to-be spouse?

There is this really beautiful woman that I met in a club. We had a great time and ended up at her place. 
While leaving for my home next day I realised that she might have another man staying at her place. I logically deduced that it might be her brother or boyfriend.
Any way she texted me in about a week that her boyfriend and her are interested in me being the unicorn in their relationship. 🦄
I dont know what that means so I looked it up online and realised what they mean.
What do I even do here? I am really into her and I love her aura but this is scary. I don't want to end up in a situation with multiple people. Especially considering that I am a single woman who is new to this city.

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