Consultant

Leave that type of relationship and don't marry because after marriage there are lot of things which can be happen

maybe, we starts living after the marriage.

Network Engineer

Legal

Down with the patriarchy!   
  
 …… Oh wait.

Sales manager

Content compliance

It was never a love marriage, atleast from her point of view.

Software lead

Software Developer

Program Manager

Product Manager

@LooseGoose now tell me. That is why I left the hope.

Then don't marry lol. No big deal. You can still date people without such pressures.

Generalist

Is this love?I'm very sad to see this post. I feel if you really in  love with someone..these materialistic things doens't matters..you both have to be strength of eachother and grow 🪴. expectations in love should be like gestures,love,care and understanding.(Gifting is  also  the  part but it shouldn't be demanding like so).

Strategy & operations

Growth Manager

Even in Love marriage process, such things happen!!🤦‍♂️

Software Engineer

Mate, this is gonna be hard but she does not love you. She loves money. If someone is marrying you for money or jewellery. Then that's not the right person to be with.

Founder

Reverse dowry 😅 Btw on serious note, get out of that relationship bro....asap!

Assistant Manager

Real relationships aren't real anymore, and it's going to be worse , only money matters?

Real relationships aren't real anymore, and it's going to be worse , only money matters?- Grapevine

Welcome to Personal Finance's Private Community

what is money to you ?

do you have a few goals you want to achieve with money or don't know what to do ?

are you investing or is it just rotting away in the bank ?

are you controlling your money or is it the other way around?

do you get stressed about expenses or are you chill about it ?

do you see expenses as investments ?

are you attached to the amount of money you have ?

do you easily give money if someone needs a few lakhs and asks for it ?


you got the idea I guess, basically what's your relationship with money?

How's your relationship with money ?

Senior software engineer

Grapeviners, can you, with all honesty convince a non-believer like me into getting married and having children. If you do, my parents will send a million blessings your way. 

About me: 
- Female, 28
- mostly introverted, very selectively extroverted
- single and normally attractive
- Jinxed when it comes to relationships
- Financially independent, Net worth: 1 cr
- not bragging, but I'm decently intellectual and I can have smart conversations

My reason to resist marriage is: I'm scared it won't work out and will cause bigger problems than being single. Have seen too many unhappy marriages in family and friends. Dating scenes in recent times have only made things even more unimpressive.

Convince me to get married

Sometimes I usually think, Why do I lose our school and college friends one by one? Is this a sign of maturity, reality, or something else?

I am just 25 years old, and within 3 years I have lost 90 percent of my circle and the few who left, with whom I usually get time to chat, call, or plan to get out.
 
And I feel that some day I will also lose them.

Can you guys make some comments that I have became  matured or that this is the actual reality of damn life?

Is losing friends from school and college a sign of maturity or reality?

Application Engineer

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

Don't work for 70h/week

Senior Consultant

Your opinion?

Welcome to News Discussion's Private Community

I always wonder how would people survive if a crisis hits so bad that the fortune 500's loose their money and organisations stop new projects  how would the government make revenue to keep the system going, how would people with low income living on the edge continue their life what would happen to the children of the future, a civil war can be foreseen but to what extend after living a life in a tech filled world no skills left in humans but depend on smart devices just imagining the worst of the times that might happen. Looking at the current condition i believe we are close to the age of chaos what do you think!!!

Is the recession real, are the wealthy losing money!!!

Business Development Manager

If we open up to girls about our feelings, we either be ridiculed or weak but if girls open up there is a whole community supporting them!!

Even if it's men's mental health month, are there any open talks or girls helping out??? NOPE

WE CAN EITHER SHUT UP AND LOCK IN OUR INTEGRITY OR SHARE OUR THOUGHTS TO THEM....


Convince me! 

Ps: no fights just a post to look out to talk with girls🥴

Is it just me or we Bois are really afraid to talk to girls about our feelings

Information Security

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

Generally speaking, I'm a little less happier than I was 5-6 years back. Is this the case with you folks too? Or am I overthinking/getting depressed?

Why has suddenly everything around us started being negative

I am writing this post to understand the pros and cons of different dating apps from the customer side point of view.

Dating App Pros and Cons?

Analyst

Hustle culture is a scam to brainwash employees. Any views?

It's been some time since I received some kindness from people. The last time I heard some kind words or got a kind gesture was very long ago. Today, whoever I interact with behaves absurdly without any compassion. The shopkeepers won't talk politely if asked about a product, the house owners will talk rudely and make random rules any day, people won't smile on the metro, in restaurants they will shout on the waiters and the list goes on. I am not even bringing up autowalas and taxiwalas. What does it take to show some compassion? How much does it take to compromise a little bit so that other person feels good about this world? Why does everyone want to just rip other off? 😞

What happened to the world?

Not sure if this is true to its core, life depends on the people you spend time  with,even if it is just few hours in a whole month. Thanks to the digital obsession and less socializing.

But I always end up realising that I end up with the wrong people or surroundings.

It just doesn't align at all and even though I give my best to get what I want so that I feel confident from inside on everyday basis,it fckin doesn't just happen.

Guys let's be blunt on these,where have you ended up even though other things in life are well equipped.

Poor Social status:Is it just me or is it everyone?

Technical lead

What’s the biggest problem with modern dating?

Back in 2013 .. i thought if I will be able to make 50k a month thats more than enough to sustain a family of 4 back in the day.. 

But now I see folks even earning 1lpm and struggling with finances .. they don't own a house.. 

Have we all started to live the false rich life ? 

I don't think making 2LPM or even over that... and living just on that makes you rich .. I do think in order to be rich one should look at his bank balance.. investments and assets which are generating regular income for him/her ... 

What do you guys think??

WTH is going on with the Expense Inflation of us all?

Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

I myself am a Software dev with more than ten years of exp. 

I mentored a bunch of folks and was active in lot pf communities. I have been noticing this trend for more than couple of years about how freshers and developers with experience of less than two three years are aggressively looking to switch companies to target 30L or 50L or whatever they are currently looking for. 
But I feel this is really bad for future in terms of career growth. I am not against looking for the best offer, but I feel people recently don’t have any priority for career growth. 

I am trying to understand their perspective. I am not jealous of any of these. Heck I prefer that they get more, so that they have to increase my pay to keep up with current trends. It’s just when people ask me for career guidance I don’t want to sound like a jerk to prioritise good work over good pay. 

Can you guys share your inputs/perspectives?

Are juniors salary expectations even realistic?

Staff Engineer

Welcome to IT Company Discussion's Private Community

I have become bitter about this corporate work culture.
Had some terrible work culture in my last 2 jobs
This has affected me a lot.

Joined a new one, though it's good in terms of culture to an extent.
I have gotten into the phase of not taking phony talks or fake conversations .

It's getting hard to socialize, all I see is power play, insecurity and selfish motives.

I can't talk to everyone and mostly can't take the fake things.
This has increased more as I changed jobs and got older

All they say is communicate more , increase visibility.

Not sure how I will get used to things.
It's getting very tough as I gain experience.

I somehow feel this is affecting my growth.

Any suggestions to overcome this

90's kid and still single?

Am I the asshole?

After a few months clear to me an employee was taking company for a ride. Average a few days a week in the office, otherwise sick/on errands, delivered no work. CTC 55L.

Before I could fire her, she announced she was taking Maternity leave a few months into the job. Well crap guess I need to pay her for 6 more months more because of laws I don't understand. Rip my bank account.

She returns, same issues. I put her on a pip & she resigned telling me I'm sexist and it will be hard to find a new job now. I say sorry, performance was bad, she can do pip and stay if things are better. She askes for 2 months salary and i agree.

A lawyer calls telling me I need to pay more or they will file a case. Said I discriminated to her, and it's not legal.

I think this person is a bully/psycho/self entitled. But am I the asshole?

Real relationships aren't real anymore, and it's going to be worse , only money matters?

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