SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Are hookups these common?

I might delete this post later but recently I came across a tweet that says the average body count of girls in Mumbai, Pune and Bangalore is more than their age.

So are hookups these common? I myself live in Mumbai and I am 21 year old guy and still virgin and I feel left out seeing the people talking so much about sex online and telling that they are hooking up and all. I want to know who are these people, like most of the girls I know in my friend circle are virgin and they are not looking for hookups, so who are these people having sex and what is the average age of these people because I can't find the age mentioned anywhere. And should I be worried because although I am 6 feet tall and handsome guy and still virgin and single, if yes then please give some advice.

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PerkyNarwhal
PerkyNarwhal
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Look, I'm a 23yr old girl. There are few women and men who may have such a high body count. Honestly not all of us, are actually just waiting to have sex. Most people want genuine connections.

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Yes it's true but what I have found is that many women are manipulated by you know these gym going guys and they end up being hooking up, for example my friend who is 6'3" and is gym bro and he hookups with new girl every weekend though he has long distance gf and once he hooked up with a girl who is mutual in college and guess what the girl has bf and she was virgin and she loosed her virginity to this guy who is fuckboy. So yeah it's pretty disgusting now a days and finding a virgin girl in her 20s is very difficult.

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

And btw how did you found this post after so long?💀

FuzzyNugget
FuzzyNugget

It’s fairly common, body count more than age is a bit of an exaggeration though lol.
And chill out you aren’t missing on much.

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

It's fairly common then how am I not missing out anything 🥲

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Dukano meh commonly Coke sell hoti ha. But that is home to sugar, diabetes, cancer, obesity. So buddy whatever is commonly available will be bad most of the times.

Kindly, don't do such stuff in peer pressure or in pressure of your organs.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Buddy, honestly based on my experience, it's better to have less relationships, less physical encounters because after some time for men atleast we take time to move on completely.

We might think we have moved on but few things make us remember them. So buddy, we end up losing on the right person because of them

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Yes this is the reason I am not getting into random relationship because I get too attached and then it hurts when people leave or things go wrong but on the other side it's the peer pressure and thought that I am virgin so I deserve virgin (which I know is wrong to think about but can't help), the overthinking of these things is affecting my productivity and day to day life🥲.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

That's the whole point. Have some frineds of any gender, go out, have fun.

Just don't think about those things.. Chill

And there is nothing wrong to expect a Virgin girl when you yourself are saving yourself

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

stop watching hindi OTT series. You will be fine.

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

I have not watched a single Hindi ott series till date🥲

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