Dating life in Bengaluru

That’s your problem, you’re an “average looking guy”!

Follow the two rules

1. Be attractive
2. Don’t be unattractive

It's disheartening to observe the lack of civility and constructive responses towards the original poster. It's critical to acknowledge the grim truth about matrimonial and dating apps: most are designed to capitalize on Men's insecurities, suggesting they need to upgrade to premium plans to stand out amongst their competitors.

Many men don't realize the gender imbalance, with men often far outnumbering women, reducing the urgency for women to find the so-called "nice" guy.

If your goal is to stand out from the crowd on these platforms, I'd recommend focusing on personal growth and financial stability. Considering the plethora of choices women have, it's important to strive to be among the top 5% to garner more interest.

In dating apps, an overwhelming 95% of premium subscribers are men. Women, being frequently approached already, have little need for extra features like super likes or boosts. Remember, dating apps are designed to exploit your insecurities, creating a vicious cycle of installing and uninstalling apps due to dwindling self-esteem. Instead, I'd recommend stepping out of the digital realm and making connections in the real world.

All the best, mate.

Dating app doesn’t work for me, I have installed filled details and deleted in same day

Don’t know it’s the anxiety or something else

Join groups. Be yourself and meet people there.

Groups for outdoor activity where you can meet similar minded people. Things like a book club, a movie club, a mountain climbing group, a cycling group, a music club, board game clubs etc. This should be based on your hobby. There's tonnes of meet groups.

Focus on making yourself better and the focus shouldn't be on dating. That makes you desperate and it just doesn't work out well. Keep meeting people, you'll find someone who clicks, ask them out (non creepy way), if rejected take it positively and move on (don't dwell on it).

This works a million times better than Tinder/Bumble. Also brings out your personality as it's a thing you like.

You should not feel lonely with yourself that means you don’t like your own company my dear.
And stop calling yourself average looking. What are the parameters based on which you called yourself average looking ? Kisse compare kar liya khud ko and kyun kiya bhai ?