ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

Arranged Marriage Only

Arranged marriage only - coz uske baad jo pyaar hota hai, ufffffffff 🕊️

10mo ago
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9 min AI interview5 questions
Round 1 by Grapevine
QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Yes nothing can beat the joy of experiencing one or more of the below within 2-3 years of marriage:

  1. Getting Cheated
  2. Getting Divorced
  3. The frustration of being stuck with each other for the lifetime (even if you can't endure each other) just because of society pressure and/or to not ruin the future of the child.

I know that not all arranged marriages end like this but in the recent years have observed the majority of them going through one of the above phases.

I would suggest you should aim for a happy marriage regardless of it being love or arranged.

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

@LokiPen Your last line in valuable

We need to know why are other pointers happening and why was it less in earlier times. 1 major thing (also saw another fellow grapevine user posting about it) is getting into relationship before.

See its very simple - Law of DMU works, so the best recipe in so far what i have seen and also believe for a truly happy married life is - not getting into relationship before marriage (or until you are ready to marry and other person is also looking for it)

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