Confused about life
I am just out of college, and while being in college I didn't feel it much but now I am in my 4th year and doing an internship. So the thing is here I see my peers along with the work also doing numerous things in life such as , clubbing, drinking alcohol, getting into relationships etc . And I sometimes feel like I am behind /leftout . I am not that much bothered about drinking alcohol but I really feel missing out of having a relationship. I am a 22 year old male never had a girlfriend but here almost all my peers have one . Sometimes I feel I need a gf and sometimes don't. So what to do ? is it late at 22 ( will be 23 in feb 2024 ) to be single and virgin ?
- get a girlfriend, yes
- get into sports
- keep academics sorted.
- drink karlo but limit mein and no smoking
Some time ago UPSC topper credited his girlfriend in his success. A healthy relationship lifts you and doesn't restrain you. Go for it.
bhai girlfriend dhundna majak thodi hai ? get a girlfriend aise bol rahe ho jaise market mein ladki mil rahi hai . Aur rahi baat daru ki to wo main kabhi v nai pine wala ( I somehow upar uth gaya daru ki moh maya se ) . Sports thoda bahut karta hoon , age aur jyada karne ka plan hai
Yours is the easiest age to actually find a partner. Hard truth that If it's not happening, you need to work on yourself a lot. Take part in activities, make actual friends with the opposite gender without an agenda and it will get better.
you dont need gf, dont be dependent on anyone, be independent and self capable, only if you happen to to fall in love, should you get into relationship, its normal biology to feel the need and watching others only increases it. Use that youth energy, get involved in sports and keep yourself busy! With your age, keep free and explore!