DancingKoala
DancingKoala

Divided Mind

Hi Everyone, I'm a 25M working in north bangalore as a Software Engineer. Recently, I went home and yeah, parents started asking questions about where is your girl and all. I'm trying to make them understand that I'm focusing on my career because my salary is not enough and I have a number in my mind, that once I reach it, I'll focus on this stuff.

Problem :- Obviously switch is my main target, but living alone in the city and coming back to the room to talk and look forward to meeting no one is slowly eating up my mind, I've tried these dating apps but yeah no use, clubs are expensive for single males, I've tried all the stuffs which have come to my mind, Need opinion and help of people who have gone through the same thing and how did they find their significant other.

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SwirlyPancake
SwirlyPancake

I get your point that aloneness is killing, but why aren't dating apps working? If thats because of your looks please spend time working on them. If not i dont think there's a way. Pray god, the universe will align things in your way.

DancingKoala
DancingKoala

Been on tinder bumber for 6 years, only 5-6 matches bro

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

bhai go to these events na, you get a lot of cool women there, also maybe post some stuff on LinkedIn, the conversion is better on LinkedIn

WobblyTaco
WobblyTaco

Keep focusing on making more!
Success makes a man attractive

TwirlyTaco
TwirlyTaco

similar situation with lot of people. best way is to keep yourself busy (until you find a girl)

play badminton, go to movies with friends, go for trekking etc.

GigglyMuffin
GigglyMuffin
Student3mo

Inform me if there's a vacancy... It or manager job Or production... Just need urgently

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