I am average looking 5ft 11 Male, skin on browner side. Never got any compliments from girls my life till now. I was heavily into studies and gladly enjoyed my hobbies of drawing and guitar.
But many times I wished having a partner, if possible a wife, but after facing 8 rejections on face in my life, I really think even after earning decently I will probably cannot find someone to age together with.
It gets lonely in my room.
I just want to ask, are there people like me, everyone around me looks to be in a relationship. Arrange marriage mai always got a no from other side.
I’m with you bro. I’ll be 26 at 30th Jan. Unfortunately I couldn’t find the love of my life. Sometimes I question myself what did I miss? Worked hard, got into good college, making a decent money. Now sometimes I feel that no is one is available to ask me about how am I doing.
You can argue with me about self love and all. But there is a limit of self love in life, what after this? Also I don’t believe in arrange marriages cuz they are pure transaction. There is no love in arrange marriages. Often time people argue, “jisse shaadi ho gayi usse prem kar lo”, this is total bs. I mean this is your majboori otherwise you wouldn’t do it. So big no for arrange marriage from my side.
I loved someone long back. It all started from school days but it ended by the time my college finished. I felt disrespected and betrayed, so I walked away.
I’m not even 5’11 so dating market is complete finished for me. Tried loving someone but was treated badly. Don’t believe in arrange marriages.
On top of this, nowadays I don’t have a reasons to believe girls. I just stay away from them. You what we are witnessing in India. Also mujhe gussa jaldi aata hai.
Thinking all of these factors, I think love and relationship in not for me in this life. So I don’t talk and think about this. Thanks
Thanks brother
Bro what if a girl really adjusted with a boy, obeyed him in every situation, loved him, respected him for 2 years of relationship and then that boy doesn't marry her because of family said no and social pressure, what will the girl do now
I would like to defer that arrange marriage is something different from dating.
In both cases the girl will agree to proceed if they like your appearance.
In both cases, you'll be judged by your earning, directly in case of arranged and indirectly in case of a dating scenario. Or are your guys of the naive opinion that women who date are somehow angels at heart 🤦
Vibe check can be done in a few months in both the cases. If your parents arrange for a girl for you to meet doesn't mean that the women will be an uninteresting person and neither it is the case they you bound to marry someone whom you meet in an arranged setting. Both parties can walk back if they feel it won't work. Is it something different from dating?
Are you putting value of a person on their face only. How can you go and say hi to anyone least you are aware about their nature.
One who shouts at a hi, repulsive behaviour man, really repulsive. You don't want to spend your life with a person not courteous enough to behave decently. Don't approach anyone unless you know that they are not an self claimed princess for sure.
Thanks for the analogy, I agree to it. So basically it is game over for me😐
You are so much luckier than most men. Just gain some more confidence and go hard at life. You will succeed
I am already working hard on myself to go forward, but really don't know where I am failing in the dating segment. Haven't gone on a single date since birth.
You are 25 and 5'11" If you are losing it, what abt the rest of us?
In all seriousness, Keep trying for a GF. Play to your strengths. You will get a better match in the dating world than in an arranged marriage world. There are girls out there who will be looking at you and wondering what shud they do for you to even approach them!
I am already trying since past 6 years. The other side doesn't even consider me.
Lol u still 25 only bro , read my post you are far better
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