PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Gentle reminder for cuties of GV

Hi cuties,

Gyaan nhi duga. Bs apna dost maan kr zindagi ka kuch experience share kruga.

We all know what is right, what needs to be done VS WHAT IS COOL, what is more accepted, what is attractive in short term

Honestly, I have been on both sides. I have worked hard on my career. Also, I have been into short term VIRTUAL MEANINGLESS se*ual relations.

Yr, yes in short term it was nice and good. It taught be a lot, it made me an experienced man (which would be an advantage to my future wife) BUT honestly it's impact on mind is sooo bad that one cannot get out of past completely.

Here or there, things will come out of mouth, or will come as part of expectations.

I have seriously started looking for marriage prospects. At the same time, I am trying to erase past from my life mentally. Although there isn't any attachment or something, but all these se*ual thoughts have fruited from those virtual relations only.

Hence, my suggestion for everyone who is from 16-25. Please think long term. Anything which benefits in short term is bad in long term, whether it's pizza, burger or a relationship built on physical attraction.

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QuirkyBiscuit
QuirkyBiscuit

23 m here only dating for serious stuff but get labeled as boomer idk what do i do

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Bhai. Dating is bad. That's what I have realized. No offence

BouncyDonut
BouncyDonut

Dating na kren to kya kren, baat shuru to dating se hi hogi na, direct shaadi ka thodi bol skte hain

FluffyBanana
FluffyBanana

Bhak bskd (bhai senti kar ditta) 🤣🤣

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Virtual sexual relations is what?

QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Sexting lol

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Because of this same reason, I never get into timepass relations. Sometimes I regret(usually at night ;) )

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Bhai. Abhi cheen ki neend ha aapki. But the morning after casual stuff is usually filled with regret (even if it is just over call)

ZippyBiscuit
ZippyBiscuit

Most wake up after thirty.
It's often too late by then.

FluffyMochi
FluffyMochi

Mazze le liye and all this BS

DancingDonut
DancingDonut

Why is it late for anything after 30?

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

From my experience, it's good to not plan extensively for things to happen a certain way. Life happens and plans ki waise hi lag jati hai. Best to keep an open mind for all possibilities.

ZestyDumpling
ZestyDumpling

So much in the same boat and so scared at the same time to trust someone again.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Yaaa. I am learning to live with it for now. One thing which I definitely know is the day I get married all of the impressions of past will disappear away in air as if they never existed

ZestyDumpling
ZestyDumpling

I hope, I really do. But I was chasing a connection with the brain, thinking if option one doesn’t work option two will. And in that chase that happiness will come after marriage, I lost count of the present. I stopped loving myself. I think once we come at peace with ourself, marriage or no marriage won’t matter. We will complete a person, not search for completeness.

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala

This is technically a Gyaan.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Gramtically not

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

Pahle username change karo

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Aap kro pehle

SquishyKoala
SquishyKoala

Post nut clarity😂

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Nhi bhai. Nothing like that. It's "seriousness or marriage" clarity

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