I see a lot of girls today have this condition of not staying with in-laws after marriage. I want to know the opinion of both genders on this. As I myself don’t understand what difference it makes. 🫠
I'm a guy.I kind of don't like the idea of staying at the same house with parents after marriage.
It does make a difference.I'm not married yet, but I know how Indian parents try to get involved in everything. For example, once my father said we are a very small family, after you get married, have 3 4 kids,he said in a funny way, but I didn't like it. I was like, "Excuse me, you don't tell me what to do."
This is just an example. I'm not even married yet. I've seen many like this right from naming the kid ,no of kids,their schooling, the food etc, in everything they try to control or have some influence which will be annoying ,even more if you stay in the same house. So I'm against the idea of staying in the same house with parents post marriage.
I'm not married but I ain't leaving my house and my mum's parathas just to live alone with the wife.
I can’t compromise on this. I won’t leave my parents. I’m the only son and they need me in their old age. So I can’t leave them.
Here is my suggestion: although I’m 25 M and unmarried. I would say never ask/take suggestions from 3rd party regarding your married life. Sit with your partner and decide and take out the middle way. Never include 3rd party.
If the girl is working , they'd still expect her to give her 90% in the kitchen & care taking home every minute thing after coming back from the office and whenever ...that becomes a frustration hence the decision. That's what I observed closely
See i believe in marriage, as now became the part of the family now you are not only associated with the guy himself his parents also becomes your like your parents, each female should give love respect and care to her in-laws. If they in some cases not being okay with your certain things just talk n make clarity but not living with them in their most stage of lives old age is not justified thinking...even for boys also give equally importance to your in-laws and your spouse..but nowadays in the name of modernisation people generally don't want to be with their elder generation..I feel pitty sometimes whenever I hear such instances..what we can say every one has their choice now
💯 agree, the trend of old parents living and dying alone is slowly rising in India, old age home or caretaker taking care of parents because either they are abroad or they don’t want to stay together
The vision of working from scratch to build wealth has made so many families be in middle class Dowry also pushed families from wealthy to working class Raising kids as frustrated, tired individuals - Such a shitty arrangement imo
Grapeviners, can you, with all honesty convince a non-believer like me into getting married and having children. If you do, my parents will send a million blessings your way.
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