Confused between continue marriage or not

He was always a mummas boy. It's you who has to decide whether you can continue or not @Coffeebabe

I will not. Judge you. But please just give a thought on yourself? Are you fine !! Write down in a piece of paper what people have told you: like you are arrogant, not understanding and think about it!! Are they right!? Do you need to change anything in yourself!!

Better off alone. Initiate divorce proceedings.

It's clear why he's at his second marriage already. You should probably quit early without hassle, marriage will get dissolved.

There's no point in continuing where we have to beg for attention and all

@Coffeebabe Wanna hear something which would work 1000%? I wanna say it only if you would believe and follow it because I will have to type a lot to tell you the whole story.

IMO, Most of the times mothers feel insecure after their kids marriage & started doing things which are unbelievable, sons think my wife is only making issue of everything, my mom is aged we can’t change her, my wife shd take all the shit & adjust etc. With none to understand at in-laws place, most of the women try to adjust in silence, take it all & bottle up everything within themselves. One fine day she gives back 2x to her husband & MIL.
Then all the blame comes on the wife & gets thrown out of house leaving a scar in her life.
It’s good to have clear communication before marriage like how does a prospect husband want to resolve fights b/w wife & mother. What’s his approach etc.
In your case, it’s hard to make the husband understand until he actually recognises by himself what the real issue was & wants to resolve it.
Don’t try to call,
Talk to any mutual connection who can initiate conversation on behalf you or directly take ur parents or elders to their house to know what’s in his mind.

If he doesn’t want to continue then it’s good to end it here. Life is vast, you don’t have to suffer in dilemma.
It’s not right to let you hang in b/w.
If u r worried about society, take my words they will not stop with anything. Even if u both reconcile, they will talk about this incident every now & then.

No one's fault here. You are right at your end, he is right at his position and his mother is also. She seems the right cause at her age and with some anti depressant tablets it's understandable that she will behave unexpectedly. Her son is right cause he is a son and should take care of her at this time irrespective of her behavior. You are right cause you did all it takes and continuously tried to be with him and save this marriage.

Now the only point is, is there a way to settle this all down. I mean if you can adjust with his mother, he can pay attention to you as well. Is it possible for you to ignore her mother's behavior and just do whatever it takes to keep it neutral maybe like just listen to her and no need to respond to anything which you may not like. Not easy but I hope you understand. Is his son can manage it between you and his mother considering both are important parts of his life and this is the time which requires most patience, tolerance and calmly execution of every behavioural activity.

I am not in your situation so I can't understand it exactly, I know advising others is easy and it seems hard to work in your own life. But believe me little tolerance and ignorance to things which may cause noise or fall you apart will keep this bond life time.

Just understand you and your husband are the only ones who can solve it, no one else can. Separation is easy but as you mentioned he was good so finding a good guy is not easy.

Wish you all the best and prayers to God to give you strength to sort this out and again settle with love, joy and happiness. God bless you.

It sounds like you've been through a really tough situation. It’s hard when outside influences disrupt something that started off well. For now I believe you need some distraction to clear everything in your head, before making a decision

Wait, so you had two marriages and that too in the same year??