CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

Confused between continue marriage or not

This was second marriage this year and so was the guy’s. Within three months he and his mother framed me inside their house and pushed me out of their house. Me and my family has been trying to reach out to the guy for patch up but he’s not responding or even answering calls messages. He was good husband initially but then he became a mammas boy. His mother has torn apart our marriage but apparently it has all happened of us not his mother. What should I do?

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GigglyMochi
GigglyMochi

He was always a mummas boy. It's you who has to decide whether you can continue or not @Coffeebabe

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

I would be able to decide if he responds to my text or calls. I don’t understand if his mom is so precious then why he had to marry someone else to ruin girls life. No girl comes and starts living in the guys home he could’ve continued doing whatever the f he wanted to with his mother

GigglyMochi
GigglyMochi

You can decide based on his no response. Parents are precious and same time partner is precious as well. DM if you want to go into detailing.

WobblyLlama
WobblyLlama

I will not. Judge you. But please just give a thought on yourself? Are you fine !! Write down in a piece of paper what people have told you: like you are arrogant, not understanding and think about it!! Are they right!? Do you need to change anything in yourself!!

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

I am fine but what he’s been doing to me isn’t at all fine with all the cruelty that he and his mother are showing. He came to me for rishta but his mother is crazy woman who’s been on anti depressant pills giving depression to everyone including her son

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

Can you suggest me im really in a depressing situation

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

Better off alone. Initiate divorce proceedings.

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

Again second time? Really? People gonna point finger at me and my parents is it that easy?

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

It's clear why he's at his second marriage already. You should probably quit early without hassle, marriage will get dissolved.

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

It’s not easy to end everything after all it’s the second time. How will me and my parents justify or say to the people relatives? There will be fingers pointed at me

BouncyMuffin
BouncyMuffin
EY1mo

There's no point in continuing where we have to beg for attention and all

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba
PWC1mo

I’m tired of begging him to talk as I am not the one who polluted his mind with s**t it’s his mom and her mother’s extended family. Two of us were getting along well that’s why we tied the knot and his mother was good before marriage

BouncyMuffin
BouncyMuffin
EY1mo

Give some time it will get sorted

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