DizzyLlama

Take your chance, people!

I watched "Life in a Metro" movie recently. There's a scene where Konkona describes what she expects in her perfect would be husband.

Movie clip(in Hindi) - https://youtu.be/wpg5AfnMkz8?feature=shared

Translation - Irrfan says - My friend bought a car 5yrs back but he hasn't driven it as he says only when all traffic lights in city turn green will he take it out.

Konkona says - Well your friend is stupid. If you don't take out the vehicle how will you even know if light is green or not?

Irrfan replies - Exactly! Take your chances, baby!

Continuing on my last perfectionism post, stop waiting for the right moment, the right anything hoping it would come someday. Hoping that you would find your knight in shining armor outside your house.

If you don't actively seek opportunities, if you don't take chances on people, opportunities, moments how will you know?

YOLO, take matters into your own hands and better make it count!

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SillyMochi

Stealth7mo

Bakwas, it's real life. Don't take chance

DizzyLlama

Freelancer7mo

For you maybe. Don't disregard the idea just yet. I don't think you ever faced a perfectionism mindset problem. If you did, this would resonate with you

SillyMochi

Stealth7mo

The very attitude to counter my statement shows how open and the mindset you have.

ZestyQuokka

Stealth7mo

Take your chances, get rejected/accepted, share stories on Grapevine
Beautiful content plan either ways 🙌

DizzyLlama

Freelancer7mo

😂

SillyNugget

Infosys7mo

And where to seek partner- dating apps or going arranged marriage way? frauds and scam news coming from dating apps don't leave much hope there

DizzyLlama

Freelancer7mo

I didn't say don't do due diligence. Did I? Don't misinterpret what is being conveyed?

Now I leave it upto you how you wanna see it. I believe I have conveyed what I wanted to convey, this is especially relatable to people with perfectionism mindset / procrastinating on things but backing out.

PeppyDonut

Stealth7mo

Colleagues par chance maaro bhai…sorry waha pe POSH lag jayega…I guess duniya ab chance lene layak bachi nhi 💀

GigglyBurrito

Javis7mo

Sab bakwaas hai, everything is a bs. I tried and tried very hard and I failed miserably. Ab mere paas woh himmat nhi hai to start again. Pura jeevan bhar yahi nhi kar sakta main.

DizzyLlama

Freelancer7mo

Everything isn't a bs. You tried, I applaud you. But many of us never had the courage to even try anything because we always felt that outcome needs to be perfect as is the case in this movie. That's why Irrfan says, try, try and find out for yourself. Take your chances

I want to get to a point where i accept it's fine to fail, but not fine to wait till eternity for things to align themselves

I apologize you think that way, but for people like me, these movies provide some hope and relatability

GigglyBurrito

Javis7mo

@jake_peralta_B99 For me the hope is dead, its just done. Love, relationship, marriage is not my cup of tea.

Good luck.

WobblyBiscuit

Student7mo

I think life in a metro was ahead of its time at the time of its release and the songs man ranging from in dino , Baatein kuch ankahi si to o meri jaan , a must watch

DizzyLlama

Freelancer7mo

True man. I primarily watched it for 1st time only bcoz the songs were good. The things shown, I see it part of our reality even today, hence the lesson makes sense even today

WobblyBiscuit

Student7mo

https://youtu.be/sempUuv77MA?si=3QWmXhR9SpxO6Kn9

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