TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

what is your deepest Regret in 2023?

When I look outside my room I feel sad. I can see grey skies of Delhi. It is so cold. No one to hug or embrace.

My heart Is hurting a lot. I dont know why.

I worked so hard. I spend 10-12 hours at work and I have no time for friends and family. I also make good money (86LPA/6YOE). I have no time to spend this money.

My family is happy with me because I am successful. My gf is happy with me because I can afford her lifestyle and give her nice gifts and experiences.

I am borderline depressed. All my friends are from work. I feel like Patrick Bateman from American Psycho.

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14mo ago
WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin

Ameero k chochle 😏

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

you are a Student. you don't know what it takes to make this much money. You go all the way. You sacrifice everything to become this successful.

chochle kisi aur ko bolio.

WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin

Haha as if you know me. Stop bullshiting the channel by showing off. You surely worked hard to get there but you can involve in many things. You have to come out to see the bigger world. Ek kue ka maindhak kya jaane duniya kitni badi hai.

PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

"No one to hug or embrace"
Bhai wo gf aapki apni hi hai na ??

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

long distance. diff timezone. we meet for one month every year.

BubblyTaco
BubblyTaco

jyada mil lo thoda

ZestyDonut
ZestyDonut

Thoda ghumo i guess. Personally i have found that if i a travel bit, it keeps me bit less depressed.

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

true. i am trying but duty calls.

WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin

Yeah bro so true. I went on solo road trip in Switzerland and it was the best road trip for me.

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka
Gojek14mo

I hope it gets better for you. Strength and peace form here.

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

tq

SillyDonut
SillyDonut
TCS14mo

Gareebon ka Aviral bhatnagar h re tu.

Paise gxxd me dal k mt baitho dost.

Follow ur hobbies.

Like travel, read spiritual books and zoom out to see ur life with a new perspective.

Will your gf love u the same way if u get laid off tomorrow?

Live your life.

Satisfy ur soul not society.

Hope u gotta my point.

Rocket health se therapy le lena...agar border line cross kia toh.

Start meditation as well asap

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

I agree. I will start some of it.

SillyDonut
SillyDonut
TCS14mo

Je bat londe... I will suggest to read kathopnishad and Swami Vivekananda's and sarvapriyananda YouTube content over gist of Vedas. NY vedanta society channel name.

If we assume cosmos as a calendar we are living in 31st December, single second. So, just think different and enjoy ur life purpose fully.

SleepyRaccoon
SleepyRaccoon
Amazon14mo

My deepest regret is residing in my comfort shell. I will try to get out of comfort zone in the upcoming year.

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

good 4 u

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Never understood this concept of getting out of comfort zone. We work hard to get into that zone in first place. Why leave?. Plan for exigencies, but why should one leave?.

This is like working hard to build a house and then deciding to sleep in the open. Because we should leave the comfort zone of the house and be prepared for homelessness.

SleepyJellybean
SleepyJellybean

I know it's difficult but if you are earning so well I believe you can afford a break atleast. Take 6 months break if you can. Go to some warm place and start learning something new or reconnect with your old hobbies and your old friends. Having a lot of money also means nothing when you are not happy with it. Try to keep a balance. Hope you figure it out!

SillyDonut
SillyDonut
TCS14mo

Nice advice

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

I will try to. Got into bad habit of drinking.

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Are you a software engineer or what?

SillyDonut
SillyDonut
TCS14mo

Bhai vc likha h ..

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

VC

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Google14mo

"My family is happy with me because I am successful. My gf is happy with me because I can afford her lifestyle and give her nice gifts and experiences." every one loves you cuz you are making money? kinda sad bruh.. I feel you have sort of aimed at money and money alone. and that is what you are getting in return. Everything seems to be a tick mark on a bucket list. Maybe ring up some failed school mates or college mates and ask them how is it going.. try giving them your time.. see how folks who are less "successful' are trying to live life. Have relationships with folks who have nothing to do with your money. See how it goes.

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

good idea but the only problem is that all that effort requires time which I have so little of. I will try during Sunday.

PeppyMarshmallow
PeppyMarshmallow

Hugs from a “somewhat” sunny Mumbai

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

thanks

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