Who do think is responsible for stress? Parents or coaching mafia?

True. Bigger the population bigger the garbage. 1% in 1 lakh is 1k and 1% in 140 crore is 1.4 crore

But that doesn't mean we can't change now. Population was something happened in past. We Indians love to talk about "what ifs". Currently, parents are the ones making it challenging to live.

Nope. The root cause of all this is stupid parents and the Indian social upbringing which has no idea about mental health.

Overpopulation hai toh sabke bacche suicide kar rhe kya? Humne toh nahi kiya suicide.

I knew what I wanted to do. If I was in some other country I would have become that and not an engineer

I wasn't clear about what I had to do after my 10th grade. The reason being, I never had the liberty to think about it. Since childhood, I was always told, or my parents made it known to everyone, 'mera beta to engineer banega.' So, as time passed, I also began thinking that I wanted to be an engineer. Initially, I thought it was something I wanted, but later, I realized it was something that had been ingrained in my mind.

I recently watched 12th Fail. It has a scene where the mentor tells Vikrant Mhassey that it's only his struggle, it is his entire community's struggle. Though the scene was indeed emotional and well placed, it is the exact antithesis of putting over expectations onto the aspirants.

It is the failure of the Indian system where someone from a poorer economic class or oppressed caste has to dive into the deep end of competitive rat race against millions of fellow such similar people to break that cycle of poverty. A system which has kept handful of glory seats towards success. It is just an arms race towards higher sacrifices, higher grit & higher desperation wasting many prime years of the youth of this country.

Nah bro. Like I told you parents are the last ones to realise that their child was in depression. Read any of the suicide articles , all these parents say same thing "He was always fine, I don't why would he do that" They send the child there to study for some exam worth more than their child's sanity.

I have a classmate friend who was in kota, after admission in college he barely talked to his parents. He hates them. He isn't wrong, he used to call them everyday and said that he doesn't feel like studying and becoming anxious. So they used to scold him, they once visited him and gave him lecture for whole day and even said his life is worthless and all. His depression grew and grew. Guy had only one goal in his life, to get away from them. He didn't visit his home for diwali too 🥲

Anyone on GV pressuring their kids please read this and then decide, suicide is another thing, beta jinda rehke agar apse baat na kare to samjho you failed as parents.

That looks exactly the case I am pointing to. Away from parents, lack of communication, not ready to face the real world. No kid will understand whether they are mature enough to take on external world, parents need to let loose slowly. You cannot till one day buy their stationary for them and expect them to go handle stress of real world the next day. Gradual exposure is the key. Not letting kids face world is as problematic as pushing them, will just have negative consequences later (in 20s and 30s)

😅already happening bro. In my college a lot of people are from South Bombay and rich areas. Poor people are thrashed here, they just leave because of depression or suck it up to get average job in consulting. These rich kids play so danger game with them , blame game, they say that they come from stinky areas and because of them they have to pay whole fees, one couple said to a poor fellow (that guy was with other 6 guys from his town) ki hamare purvajo ne tum par racism kiya that's why tum yaha pr ho varna tumhari koi aukat nahi thi yaha aane ki 🥲 how can someone say something like this to a person? 5 of them went to their hometown and came back after a year.