I have learned all men have dirty minds, if he acts innocent, it is "acting" obviously

Is it normal or okay to seek for validation from other women after being married to the love of your life? *Married for few months now *Love marriage *Good looking wife

By far the most common question I've seen from guys online is how to get matches. 0. Get good pictures of yourself clicked if you don't have any. Strictly no selfies. Also try and avoid profiles with too many selfies (it usually means they don't have enough friends in life which is a red flag). 1. Pictures shouldn't be old/outdated. Always upload recent ones. One or two should be of you doing something interesting (with friends, some hobby/activity) and your face and body should be visible clearly. Have at least 1-2 pics where full body is visible. 2. Do not have more than 3 sentences in your bio. Don't try too hard to describe yourself in a profile (don't fill up that profile to 100% details filled). Leave some space for mystery. 3. OBSESS over bio introduction. It should be crisp, witty and error free. It will make or break your profile. 4. Gym pics and car pics are a hit and miss. Some will go for it, others won't. Different personalities will go for different things. Upto you which kind you want to attract. 5. If you have pics with female friends, can add one. Women trust other women to select men. If you already have healthy female friendships, that's a green flag for them. Do take permission from your friends though. And it should be a group pic, not one where it's just you and one woman. They would assume that's your gf/ex, which is red flag for many. Just do this much and it will definitely boost your matches.

When I was doing my masters in economics last year, I met a girl. I was instantly attracted to her, however never got a chance to ask her out. Eventually I did, and we went out a couple of times. I really liked her but I think she considered me a good friend. I got mixed messages from her. Once, she sends me text messages in the middle of the night asking me to take her to lunch tomorrow and another she doesn't reply back to me. Anyway I persisted but eventually she kinda distanced herself from the relationship after we hooked up. I had fallen for her but she wanted no part of anything. Didn't return my calls or texts, or when she did made up excuses to avoid hanging out. So I told her how I felt. She was angry at me for ruining our friendship even though we hooked up, which she instigated. I never saw her again for the 3 months( she went to Delhi for some work) but she called me occasionally if she needed to talk or something. So she left and we remained in touch via Whatsapp. On one occasion, I made a passing joke as to how she spent time with every dude there but me. She became very offended and we stopped communication. She started it up again but didn't apologise. Finally, I actually visited Delhi because another friend of mine was getting married and invited me. I didn't visit her because of time constraints and she became pissed, and wouldn't talk to me, accusing me of doing it on purpose. That was 6 months ago. I'm going to a friends birthday soon and she's gonna be there. Would it be bad for me to hold the grudge? Or should I just let it go. Bear in mind, she avoided me whilst hanging out with others and then accuses me of avoiding her. I don't wanna be a douche but I don't wanna be a pushover, someone who can call me whenever and I'll come running. Please help Grapevine! 🙏🏻

I am a 30 M , got married in 2020 and clearly the marriage was not working out. My wife and her mother was always finding ways to control me from the beginning with all the little things and my wife started this drama like with every fight she used to leave the house and stay at her mother’s and not comeback until all the parents gets involved and me asking sorry, one time she left the house because I cooked the curry and had asked her to do roti this turned into a fight and just for that she left the house. And her mother threatened me that she won’t send her daughter back until I ask sorry. There were LOT of these instances and at one point I really got fed up and started standing up for myself, in the last fight she said she won’t come back again and I said please don’t I am also tired of this. After a month she started reaching out to me asking sorry and apologies and all but I had lost all trust in the relationship and I wanted sometime. Even if I let her in her mother would have ruined the relationship again , so I asked her since I have no trust you have to agree on that in future if we get divorced if we have kids the kids stay with me and I won’t pay any alimony. Following this discussion she lodged a fake domestic violence and dowry case against me and my family. And I filed for divorce after I seeing police station and all. I have all the evidence to prove that I am innocent but the court is taking very very long time and now she is asking for for a huge amount only the she will agree for divorce 😣

Also, men, why wouldn't you do this? Discuss.

Do anybody exist nowadays without any past relationships? In arrange too getting people with past, many try to hide it in start but accept after so much of efforts. If having past then why not to accept?! How to see secure future with people had multiple pasts or lieing on past?! Isn't it lot much compromise on mental peace🤔 What if you believe in old school relations - had no past and want someone similar with no past...You want to be and grow with one person forever no matter what... is it nearly possible now?

I mean how do you start trusting people again? Most of the people that I have around me turned out to be an ass. I could never fill the social void. My heart keeps yearning for social validation (I am not in the mood of hearing that happiness should stem from within etc etc, afterall humans are social beings, we need people to survive. We thrive on trust. Being alone never helps in the long run, I have learnt this the hard way) Its so easy to confuse politeness with kindness. I know it comes through practice but I have been extremely paitent. I cant filter people. I know its a plain rhetoric. But would love to know your perspectives.

Does gender wage gap exist in the corporate tech world? Or is it purely performance based? What about biases in appraisals, promotions, who gets a chance to lead and all? Looking for personal insights and experiences.

If we open up to girls about our feelings, we either be ridiculed or weak but if girls open up there is a whole community supporting them!! Even if it's men's mental health month, are there any open talks or girls helping out??? NOPE WE CAN EITHER SHUT UP AND LOCK IN OUR INTEGRITY OR SHARE OUR THOUGHTS TO THEM.... Convince me! Ps: no fights just a post to look out to talk with girls🥴