What is mid thirties? 35 is mid 
 34 is before, 36 is after

System Engineer

Software Developer

Consultant

In case you want to settle & want commitment 25 -28 is the best age to marry. You will have a dedicated partner. You don't have to put in the effort in chasing multiple boys/girls. You will be focused towards the carrier. Can help each other to grow. Plus you have a lot of time to understand each other and mould accordingly.

Systems Architect

Extreme hustle is not worth it. Focus equally self and family.

Product Designer

Please share your wisdom to help the next generation to figure out life and stuff 😁.

All the mid thirties people, drop advice for the mid twenties people...

All the mid thirties people, drop advice for the mid twenties people...- Grapevine

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Same as title. Have always seen advices for people in 20s. People in 30s also need guidance. 😐

Now, the answers to this question would depend if there are people in 40s on grapevine. 😬

People in 40s, what would you advise people in 30s?

Product Manager

I am a final year student who would be graduating in next few months , many of you guys were at my place few years back and I am gonna through same stage of age that you all already went through , what piece of advice would you like to give me regarding finances, career , relationship and most crucial aspects of early 20s to early 30s as per experience that you gained . Dos and don'ts... ?

Life advice to final year...

Turned 22 today. :) 
Saw a similar post on GV, men (in 20s) asking men (in 30s or so) to help their bros out with advice. 

Doing a female version of this, but keeping it open. Would love to learn from your experiences, mistakes to avoid, career advice, relationships, health, wealth, etc, whatever you've learnt most from.

Early 20s advice

Digital Marketing

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Context: I am a software engineer with 4 years of experience.

Everytime I work with a bunch of engineers (Especially Indian Startups). Most of them are workaholics.

They are just working for some company full-time. They are interested in learning more about technology, making jokes about technology, following technology news, etc. 

That is it. 

No social life. (Especially after Covid). No skills in any other part of life.

Their comfort zone is so small that they have developed a lifestyle of working, sleeping & watching something on laptops and that's it.

They make an excellent salary but don't do anything else. 

Every time I meet a 35-40-year-old software engineer, it is just a physically unfit guy with an arranged marriage who is boring as a brick.

Are most Software Engineers boring outside work?

I am in my late 20s and I feel attacked. Thank you for striking the right chord 
  
 I've come to realize that, like many software engineers, I've found myself navigating the monotony of an 8-hour job, often feeling isolated from my office peers. It can be challenging when people hesitate to open up, but the reasons for this became clear. 
  
 There are two key aspects at play: a minimal social life and prioritizing work. These factors are interconnected. In late 20s, the circle of friends tends to shrink, and individuals are busy setting up their own lives, leading to growing distances. With limited time for each other, it's easy to become engrossed in work life. I didn't anticipate that making friends would become a challenge, and I acknowledge this as a personal objective (read OKR) for myself. Despite being an extrovert, reinitiating the trust and friendship path can be difficult. 
  
 To address this, I've proactively connected with people, stepped out of my comfort zone, and initiated new activities. It's a challenging process, and sometimes it feels like I'm overdoing it, but the effort is rewarding. Engaging in activities beyond my job role, such as joining a gym or participating in public discussions, has been beneficial. I've also reduced my time on social media, realizing that platforms like Instagram reels consume a significant portion of my time. 
  
 I'd like to urge understanding for people in their late thirties. Having once criticized the habits of those in their late twenties when I was in my early twenties, I now comprehend the challenges of their situation. Unexpectedly, I find joy in shopping for groceries and organizing them neatly. It's all about priorities, and embracing change has made a significant positive impact in my life.

Software Engineer

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What is the best piece of advice you wanna give to people who are in their 20s?

Best piece of Advice for people in 20s

To all the people who are in 30s, 40s and so on.

What advice/suggestions you would give to a person who is in his/her 20s or mid 20s in all aspect of life such as career, love, relationships, money, society at large etc.

To all the people who are in 30s, 40s and so on

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Wanted to say Hi, what do you do, how do you see current phase of your life, how do you look at your career so far, and what do you plan to do in next 5 years, etc.

Any 40+ Grapeviners here?

Solution Architect

Hi guys,I wanted to know what financial mistakes or right things that you did at 24 yr.Which changed your perspective to see the life.And as a 24-year-old software engineer what should I focus on my next 5 years both personally and financially ?

What will you give an advice to 24yr old me

Folks in the age group of 32 and above. What significant change you saw in your life post 30 both in terms of health and work? 

What do you wish you had done better or a piece of advice for the ones in 20’s. I understand good workouts, healthy eating and financial discipline are top of the list. Would love to get some perspectives beyond that.

How should one be prepared for life post 30?

Founder

What are your thoughts when people say "Enjoy your 20's" ? do you agree?

I know its a cliched question .. but how do you guys really know what you want to do with life ? I am 27 years , i have been mediocre my entire life .. i am yet to figure out what to do with life .. i have a decent paying job but not content with life in general any thing that anyone did and gave some results .

Advice needed

I graduated recently with a computer science related degree and since my  childhood I told my parents that I will be an ias officer and prepare for upsc , iam telling the same till the last 2 day's, my parents got there hopes up alot and they are searching institutes to join me and all stuff for the past 3 years but yesterday I told them that I want to pursue masters and go into tech field . They are extremely upset and there's no communication for the past 2 days and everyone around including other family members trying to convince me to go for ias  coaching . What to do ?

Advice to the 20 yr old choosing his career

You are 35. What have you stopped believing in that you totally believed in when you were 25?

Life lessons

Business Analyst

Men who are 25 or older, please give a piece of advice in the comments section to the men who are 18-25.

Life Advice for Big 4

Help your brothers

I'm in late 20's now. 
  
 To my bro's in their early 20's: 
  
 "Please priorities your fitness. Aim to establish a routine and get into a shape you yourself are comfortable with and proud of."

Growth And Strategy

Security Analyst

I recently worked at a startup and it was terrible. 

To be honest, I still worked at one of the better ones but it just sucked. 

Some of the clear downsides I see 

- Survival mode leads to chaos. You can be treated anyway and asked to leave whenever  even though you left big opportunities to be here 
- Brand loss to find next job (Big problem)
- Trying to make you feel unworthy(Doesn't bother me but I have seen people lose self confidence)
- Loss of opportunity to build real skills like building sustainable teams for the long run

I think over all working at a startup especially early teams is a losing proposition. Do it only if -
 - you know the founders/team well 
- you know the industry and market well and it is a bet you personally believe in
- you are secure enough in life that if you go back to your job, you will easily get employed 


For middle class kids, startups are the worst bets one can take.

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