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TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
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Dating in this economy is expensive.They pick fancy spots,then when the bill comes, these(independent)folks don’t even fake the wallet reach

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JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY6mo

Why don't you convey in advance that it will be contribution? Most of them treat dating as free luch / dinner so if you expect them to pay then tell it upfront.

SnoozyCoconut
SnoozyCoconut
Stealth6mo

Pretty weird and awkward to say this before

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

I thought it should be obvious especially when they consider themselves as independent individuals

GigglyPretzel
GigglyPretzel
Stealth6mo

I don't believe in splitting, but I do believe in rotational payments. I pay once, you pay next.

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

Agree 👍

ZoomyTaco
ZoomyTaco
Stealth6mo

But what if you don't find dates interesting on the very first go? Will you give him another chance so you could pay on the very next turn?

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon
Stealth6mo

I think a guy should pay for the 1st one, but the place should be of his choice. It should be a split from the next one.

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion6mo

+1

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

Yes, I believed so but it’s not the case. I guess one has to call it out every time 😀

DizzyNarwhal
DizzyNarwhal
Urban Company6mo

Date someone who is happy to split or spend 🧘

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

Easier said than done

DizzyNarwhal
DizzyNarwhal
Urban Company6mo

😀 because I have one, who loves to spend on me and never hesitate to share in between.

Yes It's tough, but you need to go above and beyond for someone who is really a queen inside... rather than someone who lives for instant validation.

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka
Stealth6mo

Bhai ghar baitho or Aram se maggi Khao 🐈🐾

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

Nahi bhai I’m more of a biryani or pizza person 😀

SnoozyCoconut
SnoozyCoconut
Stealth6mo

Just send the split after date to her on gpay and WhatsApp,she will pay ,after that if she continues with u then she is a keeper

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

I thought it should be obvious especially when they consider themselves as independent individuals

SleepyNugget
SleepyNugget
Infosys6mo

Whoever initiated -pays…

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Microsoft6mo

I agree. In my cases, it’s mostly the other party 😀

BouncyTaco
BouncyTaco
Stealth6mo

Sorry to hear this. Just say this looks a bit too fancy, can we pick something simple? And at the end of the date, say should we split the Bill?

Cheaper still, meet for a walk in a park. If it seems worth it, then try the first idea.

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