Families are now in talking stage and it is brutal
My GFs and my family are now soon to be in talking stage and it's already fucking up our mind. My parents want to do it ASAP and her's want to have sometime. Every single day we're just balancing and cursing our decision. For context: it's typical interstate, inter caste one and we have know each other for 8 years. Why does it need to be so hard? Both the families are in opposite directions. 🥲
TheOatmeal
Stealth
2 months ago
Hold on tight if you really need it. Things will come
Through.
KhattaAngoorrr
Stealth
2 months ago
Thanks buddy. We're literally having nightmares every night since last week
TheOatmeal
Stealth
2 months ago
Sab hojayega bhai. Honeymoon destination set karo :)
Why am I reading my own story😅. Same stage, same problems buddy.
KhattaAngoorrr
Stealth
2 months ago
Bhai bhai
If her parents want to take some time, this means that they are not sure about you and might also be looking for more options meanwhile.
No parents (especially girl's) want to delay their children' s wedding.
What you need to do is give them a sense of assurance that you can take care of their daughter, provide and care for her. Once they see you're worthy of their daughter, they'll rush the whole thing more than you.
I myself was going through the same phase 1 momth back, we both told our parents on day 0, day 7 i was meeting her family (they were 80% satisfied), day 14 her family visited mine (100% satisfied), day 15 we had our roka ceremony.
It all comes down to how assured they are of you and how well can you convey this to each other's parents.
Hope this helps.
KhattaAngoorrr
Stealth
2 months ago
Makes sense
Bro.
Take my advice seriously.
Marriage isn’t worth it.
You’ll only realise when you start missing the freedom you had in your youth
Riyality
Stealth
2 months ago
typical indian families bro
Seems like her parents aren't confident in you. Take them out for lunch or dinner and have a talk with them and provide them assurances
lime
Student
2 months ago
Hang in there, KhattaAngoorr
Parents do take time in the hopes kids bail out.
Hang in there, bro!
Many more hindrances may come your way. Have faith
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