People don't love you for being you, they love you for what you can do for them. It's sad but true.

Generalist

Product Manager

Everyone will love you for being rich 🤑 so become rich

Jo Mujhe meri liye pyar Karein...  Wanna someone who loves me for myself....  Bas khatam philosophy.....

Jo Mujhe meri liye pyar Karein...

Wanna someone who loves me for myself....

Bas khatam philosophy.....

Koi aisa chahiye...

Software Developer

Koi aisa chahiye...- Grapevine

Hello lovers…what is that one thing you want to share with everyone about your love?

Human resources

Everyone uses a version of you
That fits their interest
Still acceptable

178 cm Brown skin 
Always left out
Gym Personality development sab try Kia
Khud k career development k liye roj ragda
Khud k health k care Kari
Par breaking aa gya hai

I eat alone in the office
POSH k dar se females se dur rehta hoon

Drawing Flute, in sabhi k clubs join kiye
I was well versed in them when I was a kid
To find someone
Par no girls in sight, even if they were
I was not even an option.

But still
I cannot come close to the ones who were gifted
I am invisible to girls
Kuch khaas jine k tamana nhi hai mere

Par Ek din k liye
Ek Sundar dikhne wala insaan Banna chahta hoon
Jise dosta gender romantically attractive Lage

Kya koi hai idhar jinke halat mere jaise ho

When You look ugly

How to find true love? 
Need genuine suggestions. Please help me

Right Partner

Data engineer

Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

I met a guy couple of times and I really liked him. Once on a date, I decided to confess my feelings to him but stopped when he told me that he was moving abroad for higher studies.

It's a great opportunity for him but I am heartbroken. I got attached to him as we used to talk a lot.

People who have done MS from abroad, do they return after completing the course and find a job there only and move out of India?

Heartbreaks!

Welcome to Moving Abroad's Private Community

Please share your experience and if possible shared Private Cab contact number (Direct driver number)

And Other tips are welcome:)

Thailand Package via MMT

UX/UI designer

‘Agar bichadne se muskurahat laut aaye tumhari,
To tumhe hak hai ki mujhse dooriyan bana lo’


Guys post some shayri that you feel close to your heart/relate with/ like the most (need not be coined by you)


By doing so we’ll also be able to read some maybe unheard shayris and weep along with our peers xD

Dardnaak Shayri

Analyst

Welcome to Movies & Music's Private Community

P.S. Give your reasons too, it will be fun

P.S. The series starts earlier today, because you have more of Saturday 🤷‍♀️

Saturday Playlist #3 - One song you cannot stand for no reason 😂

Consultant

When I do have one I don’t feel like spending time with her I’d rather scroll YouTube than to message her even though she’s amazingly attractive. Does anyone else feel like that?

When I’m single I feel having a gf must feel magical but…

Frontend Engineer

It can be the lyrics, it can be the music video or music.

I'll go first -

1. KSHMR & Lost Stories - Bombay Dreams
It is beautifully crafted video dealing with shame in pursuing something others despise or make fun of. The music video makes me smile at around the end

2. Passenger - Let her Go
The lyrics are so damn pure gold. It's so common sense but truly hits you especially when you are by yourself and it just sinks in! Love every line of the song and I think the lyrics are relatable for lot of people

3. Ritviz - Sage
Beautiful video, talks about acceptability and how people are threatened by something they don't understand and how world could use more love and it would be such an amazing place!

What are the songs that makes you emotional?

What are the songs that make you emotional?

Koi hai ?

Account Executive

Ok guys, I am fed up with Bumble, jeevansathi and the sorts.

I do get decent amount of acceptances and right swipes but the one’s who I end up liking want to have ONS or casual dating and the ones who want to take things to next level, I am not that interested. 

What should I do? I am serious about settling down. 

Where do I meet women who are great human beings, kind, successful and want to settle down :)

Need a wife!

Associate director

Genuine question ha

What all did you not see, and now years later come at you like "How could you be so dumb?"

What's your story of "I was blind in love"?

Sometimes people use certain people for the transient phase to heal themselves and then move one once they are able to rediscover themselves. 
While this may not be purely intentional at times, this does leave a sense of worthlessness in the other person's soul. And then the person feels "used" and breaks other people's heart and the cycle continues.

It can become a vicious loop if things are not clearly communicated.

How do you figure out if someone is genuinely in or using you for rebound ?

These are my thoughts that go through my head as I work towards a healthy and happy life. I wrote them down to never forget them, and come back to them whenever I lose sight. I am sharing this here in hopes that this might help someone else too, as a lot of us are going through something or the other since we got into adulthood. This is written in first person, so read it as something you are telling yourself :)

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It happened, it's in the past. There is nothing that I can do to change it. I can only learn and grow from my mistakes, from the wrongs that happened to me. I can change where I am, how I am and how I live my life. I have that power, and no one can take that away from me.
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This time would never come back. If I don't like how my life is today, my standing, then I need to work on changing it. I need to ponder on the question "Do I want to be at this same place a few months down the road?" Yes, I am talking about months and not years, because if I don't like where I am today, I shouldn't be liking it ever, and it doesn't have to take a long time for me to realise this.
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I won't ever have everything figured out, such is the nature of life. It's not a script; instead it is unscripted and spontaneous. There would always be something new, something that would demand my attention, something that is unfamiliar and uncertain, and I have to learn to live in the flow of it all.
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I don't know where I am going, what will happen, what life has in store for me. I don't know anything, but isn't that beautiful? That this is that mysterious book, whose pages turn with time. But at the same time it isn't a mystery at all because what would happen to me would be the result of my work and efforts, at least to some extent, to the extent where things are under my control.
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And if something went out of control in the past, till when should I punish myself over it? Till when should I keep doubting myself, keep being afraid? I am wiser now, and my future self would be too. I need to have faith in myself and believe that I am going to make the right decisions. I have a sensible head on me; I am intelligent, and aware. 
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Also, what is going to happen is unknown, uncertain, so why do I keep forgetting my own words? That I am not afraid of failing, rather I am afraid of not trying. Let's never forget it ever again. Let's do this life right, let me do right by myself. Let me live this life to the fullest. Let me gift myself the life I would be proud of having lived when I take my final breath and leave this world behind. Let me be present. Let me do it all and more. Let me squeeze life in the tightest of hugs that I could ever give, and not be the first one to let go. Let life let go of me when it's time. So until then, let's do this zindagi!

Let's do this zindagi!

Software Engineer

Tum BJP ki tarah hamein pyaar to kro,
Hum bhi Congress ki tarah barbad na ho Jaye to kehna. 🫰🫶

New love goals

Kal Koi Mujhako Yaad Kare
Kyun Koi Mujhako Yaad Kare
Masaruf Zamaanaa Mere Liye
Kyun Vaqt Apanaa Barabaad Kare

I felt these lines

In English we say: 

I love her and let her go:)

But in Urdu we say: 

Jab samajh aae bahane uske.. 
to humne usey pareshan karna chor diya..

hai muhabbat ab bhi..
lekin humne jatana chor diya..

I love her and let her go

I think we fall for people who are opposite to our insecurities. 
And this is beyond how they look, what they do for work, or which school they belong too (that's for arrange marriages 😂 )

I am someone who cannot keep up good habits (for long) and tend to question myself at every step.
People who are disciplined and self aware are very hot to me!

Do you relate?

Koi aisa chahiye...

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