Marriage in Early Stage Matters ?
25M. My parents keep on asking to get marry Because I am earning.. But the thing is I am not prepared for this, need to achieve my goals, not sure I will be reaching my goals after marriage. more over there are some trust issues on arranged marriages. Also I do get this on my mind some times, does marriage is mandatory, can't we live without marriage, I feel this when I see married people pretends that they are happy outside but they are not inside, reasons might differ, lack of understanding, compromises, adjustments, Financial instability . I am in full of confused state. I already rejected few matches because of this mixed feelings and also to achieve my goals.
Kendall Gabriel
Stealth
5 months ago
You dont wanna marry soon? Then fucking don't.
What do you mean parents aren't listening? Aren't you man enough to put your foot down and politely ask them to mind their own life? If being polite doesn't help, then you need to get respectfully & assertively rude.
If your married life fucks you up mentally, they will be the first to blame it back on you. Also, when you can't stand up for what you want, no one else will. Your parents, wife and her parents will manipulate you alive.
Kalan Gabriel
Stealth
5 months ago
Of course, we can live without marriage. Lot of people are living alone happily, whether they got there by being unmarried, divorced, or widowed.
It's your life. You do whatever feels right to you. To hell with what other people think, just ignore them.
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