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Never give up

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What is the easiest way to die without pain?

Business Development Manager

I have been in love with one girl double side, but now she told it wont happen we are different state my parents will kill you we can breakup, I become emotionally so weak my heart feeling heavy. how can i come out from this pain. How can girls easily start avoiding boys even they loved so much.

Need suggestions

Project Engineer

NOT Quitting makes all the difference!

At what age should one give up on their dreams and accept they are a failure instead of dying everyday?

Give up

System Engineer

I am recent college graduate working at a good company with decent salary. 
I have three kind of friends from my college, 
1. Those who got very good ctc, like 15 to 30lpa ( mostly girls are here ) 
2. Those who got decent, like 5 to 7 lpa
3. Still trying to get job, or have one but company is delaying on boarding. 

But the fact is everyone has more or less same level of knowledge, still someone making lakhs and someone is not able to pay bills.

These days I'm getting a feeling of jealousy from these girls, they got the opportunity from programs which was only for womens. And not only this when I talk with them they don't even respect what they're getting, always like it's so less, I'm not able to save anything.

Whenever I talk with them, either I got stressed or  tensed, or felt left out.

Sharing my thoughts

RPA Developer

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3 months Intern at a (Top 4  IIT) 
summer intern at a  product based company(very well known) 
9 months intern at very well funded startup. 
Did not get ppo from summer intern and startup, both ppo above 20 LPA package
Had to start at a bank as sde below 9 ctc
Feeling demotivated if i should continue in software

Cry too hard

Bro I will tell you my situation I got 6 month internship at Amazon on campus, and got placed in a 14.58 lpa company. Amazon did not provide PPO and just a month before joining my offer got revoked. From 2 offers to none time does not remain the same. Right now I am working in a company I feel shy to tell the CTC also to by friends. My father has a very high loan of 30+ lakh in his business. But I will not give up.

Software Engineer

Software Developer

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Most corporate jobs tend to make you less of a human being.
The pressure and competition make you shout at your subordinates, backstab your colleagues, and play politics.
No matter what comes your way, don't give in to pressure.
being a good human being is not a barrier to success, it's actually a key component of sustainable, meaningful success. When we prioritize empathy, kindness, and integrity, we build strong relationships, foster a positive work culture, and create a legacy that truly matters.

Don't stop being a good human being; your progress won't be affected. Success that makes everyone hate you will be of little value.
After all, success at the cost of relationships and respect is a hollow victory."

Keep shining, you are making it easier for others to find their way.

Strive to remain a good human being.

Customer Service

Do all late 20s (28-29 years) men face the same issues mentioned below? 


1. Parents getting old- you don't want to see your loved ones getting old 
2. Single earning member 
3. Staying away from parents sucks as they need us more now.
4. Paying rent 30-40% of total in-hand salary in metro cities. 
5. Less friends, even if you have more friends you don't want to express what you are going through. 
6. No emergency fund- Agar koi emergency ayi to dosto ko paise mangne padenge.
7. Job switch - As the market is unstable, so you're afraid to switch and get laid off.
8. You want everyone around you to be happy, as your happiness depends on their happiness. 
9. Unable to express what you are going through to people around you (wife, parents, friends, relatives etc)
10. Happy Wife Happy Life - You try to do things out of the box (which is beyond your reach) because it makes her happy. 
11. What about our happiness?
12. Many more....

I'm going through this now. Sometimes I feel like I should talk to a person (who is anonymous to me and I'm anonymous to him/her) and express everything that is depressing me.

Late 20s Issues

Women of grapevine, if you had to share one advice with your younger self what would it be?

Human Resources

Hey everyone, I wanted to share an experience that many of you might relate to. Over the past few months, I have applied to over 40+companies/ startups for Ui/Ux designer / product designer job positions. Despite putting my best foot forward and ensuring my applications were tailored to each role, I haven't received any responses. I even applied through platforms like Well Found, where my applications were accepted, but unfortunately, I wasn't scheduled for any interviews.

This journey has been challenging and disheartening, but I'm determined to keep pushing forward. I'd like to ask for your advice and insights on the. Feedback and improvement.

Here is my portfolio link:-- 
https://www.behance.net/nainavishwakarma

Need your guidance, networking tips and feedback

UX/UI Designer

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I got into a startup (informal) and invested my savings and also took loan from friends and family.

It would take a couple of years to clear up but I am happy thwt I didn't let go.of the opportunity and the learnings also realised the following.
1.I enjoyed the thrill 
2.When something has to go wrong,It will
3.My priorities changed (family,health,mental peace)
4.I am enjoying what I have more than ever and not cribbing about what I don't have.

I am about to touch 40 and lose all savings(instead loans on the head) but I have never felt so calm ;)

Anyone with a similar life altering experience 😉

My hustle mindset backfired and Lost all,but am happy

Investor

Don't lose hope; keep fighting, better days are ahead.

But this is extremely better. U are either very skilled or had fortune on ur side. Not everyone will have it 😅 Congrats! 🙌🏻

Can someone who’s studied MS Dhoni in more detail speak more about how he got where he did in life? 
He seems to be extremely calm and composed and a really successful leader at whichever team he leads. 

I was shook by how calm he was throughout the CSK winning final. 

How did a guy from such a small town end up becoming such a big legend even though he doesn’t have Virat or Sachin level talent.

MS Dhoni's mindset

Life has become so dry and meaningless nowadays. Struggle connects us on some level. I’d love to hear your stories of struggle and how you overcame it.

Here’s my story.
I studied B.E for 7 years because of backlogs. Every year was a new batch, no friends. Extreme depression, humiliation everywhere. Isolated myself from an extremely judgmental society. 
Confidence had no meaning in my life. 
Somehow struggled and cleared all the backlogs. Studied programming and web design. Started working for free.
After 1 year, first salary was 2k per month.
Then 18k. Then 30k.
I always felt dumb because of the backlogs. Want to rectify it. So went to the US with the only admit I got. Studied my ass off. GPA 3.95. But I was broke again. Cried my eyes out multiple times because I had no money for food. Couldn’t tell this to parents.

Found a job later after many many applications. 
Happiest moment of achievement was when I bought my first 43 inch LED TV. With my own money.

Current pay: over 2L / mo.

Tell me your story of hard work and difficulty

Product Designer

I am working hard on my myself
Gym study work sleep
Make sure everything is completed on time
So that the schedule doesn't mess up

But Why?
I get a feeling of someone I need
To tell everything how my day went
Bhai PTA hai mai ugly hoon
Theek hai
Par yar ek limit hoti hai in thoughts k

In my WorkSpace I make sure to keep professional bonds with my team

Ghar aata hoon to 
Kayi bar phone ko dekhta hoon
Na h koi call
Message

Bus office wala phone h hai Jo phone lagta hai
PTA nhi ye sab kyu ho rha mere sath
Akele marna likha hai 
Phir bhi dimaag ghumta h hai
Dhere Dhere confidence peace self esteem
Mar rahe hai
These thoughts are winning

.....
Mere Ghar par koi nhi hai
Na h Bhai behen
1 dost hai wo busy rehta

Kayi bar marne ka bhi man karta
I close my eyes and cry sometimes
Ek normal routine wala Banda is had tak emotionally har chuka hai
Kya pap kiya hoga maine

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