The pain of RESERVATION
This post does not aim to target personal egos Hello everybody , I'm a general category student with all India rank of 23k in jee mains out of 14lakh And 16k in jee advanced . The story of my life is I want to be a software engineer at this rank I'm not getting into my state nit whereas all my beloved friends at ranks of 50k are getting their (obc reserv.), I worked hard but feels like all my harwork drained in front of reservation . Also to mention my friends pity me haha Also a friend of mine sc category person Got into IIT Bombay Not any branch ppl,electrical branch 5 year at 25k rank in jee advanced sweet ain't it Check out my rank in jee adv and all I can get highest is iit kgp mining Out of all of this I secured admission in a iiit but it's fees is so much that what do I do , Sadly I'm from lower middle class family , the fees is literally 17 lakhs , also I'm a single parent child , living in a small town . THIS IS WHAT I CALL PAIN OF RESERVATION Literally everyday of counselling, ive wished that I should not have worked so hard because if I would not have such score then it would be easy to let go , and go to some 3rd class college with less fees Sometimes it feels ive lost hope , but still just being 18yr old I won't change my Hardworking nature I managed to learn c and c++ and now am doing some basic dsa . But I'm really pained by this system PERIOD.
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Who do think is responsible for stress? Parents or coaching mafia?
I blame parents for this. Not that coaching centres are saints, they suck the life out of students by making them study 24/7 but the reason that child is in coaching centre is because parents put him/her there. And every suicide letter I have read from students mentions that they couldn't fulfil parents expectations. They are the reason their child is in that condition, just because they want to brag and seek validation from so called society that their child is a prodigy (and want to establish that they are the creator of this prodigy) who went to medical/IIT. And if the child doesn't act acc. to their expectations, they start gaslighting them "We gave you birth" "Maa baap bhagwan ka roop hote hai how dare you blame us Or don't listen to us" I once watched a movie (don't remember the name) where actress says "As parent we determine if our child needs tuition classes but at same time we fail to know if he/she needs therapy" Who do you think is to be blamed? Also parents on GV don't push your child if he doesn't want to fly, thinking he has wings, he may fall to death.
The Court was hearing a PIL filed by a Mumbai-based doctor Aniruddha Narayan Malpani who blamed coaching institutes for driving students to ...
https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/sc-blames-parents-for-kota-suicides-refuses-to-rein-in-coaching-centres-101700492539131.html